How To Have The Greatest SEX of Your Life!
Having the greatest sex has nothing to do with having sex.
The greatest sex is beyond physical.
Great sex is a result of something deeper.
The greatest sex isn’t about learning the best Kama Sutra techniques. Incredible positions without heart connection and love will leave you feeling empty.
It’s about the flow of energy between you and your partner, and the understanding that sex is a sacred energetic exchange and offering to each other that has the power to heal.
Great sex isn’t about how long you can keep it up or how many orgasms you have but how open your heart is.
When your hearts are open to each other, and you feel each other deeply, you recognize that inside the body of your lover is the Divine.
Great sex isn’t about proving something or a performance, it’s an offering of love. An opportunity to worship the essence of Infinite consciousness through your lover’s form. Their body becomes the temple for you to pray. Sex becomes a sacred spiritual practice.
Great sex isn’t about getting somewhere or achieving some peak moment, it’s in savoring every moment of the journey and exploration.
The foundation of great sex is the emotional connection and intimacy you have with your partner. The foundation of intimacy with your partner is determined by the connection you have with yourself.
The depth of connection that you have with each other’s hearts will impact the depth of your willingness to trust your partner, to open and let them in.
Trust is a foundation for great sex.
To trust them not just with your body, but your heart and soul. It’s when you trust each other deeply that you can surrender yourselves to the bigger force of love, however it wants to express through you.
The more you trust, the more you can let them in. It can be a vulnerable thing but it’s then that you can touch each other’s soul. It’s then that you feel the oneness of being.
To trust is vulnerable and great sex requires vulnerability. Vulnerability requires courage, and truly great sex is not for cowards.
Bad sex simply isn’t a pleasurable or inspiring experience. The energy is off and it doesn’t feel good or enjoyable in any way. It doesn’t fulfill any of your needs.
Average sex is when the experience is OK. It’s functional. It’s simply good enough, and meets your biological need.
Good sex is when it’s pleasurable, you get enjoyment from it. It’s still a feel good mostly physical experience and meets an emotional need sometimes. You derive a level of comfort but deep down you know there’s still something missing.
Great sex is ecstatic. You lose yourself, you let go of control and surrender to love itself. You aren’t merely trying to get something from another, but sex becomes a vehicle to express the depth of love in your heart with another soul. It’s a spiritual experience. It’s an experience of two souls becoming one.
So before you have sex, really get to know your partner. Communicate deeply about what’s meaningful to you. Open your hearts to each other. Share the depth of who you are, your fears, vulnerabilities, things you have been withholding/secrets, what turns you on and what inspires you. As you open your hearts to each other, you make love in the purest way without even touching physically!
Transparency is sexy since when there’s nothing in the space between the both of you, your energy flows much more effortlessly.
Authenticity is the greatest turn on for the heart. Love is the greatest turn on for the soul.
It’s when you dare to lose yourself in the soul of your lover that you will find true ecstasy.
-So look deep into their eyes as you make love. And you will see infinity smiling at you.
-Feel your lover’s heart and acknowledge the human being full of vulnerabilities, tenderness, fear, courage and beauty. Knowing it is a privilege that you get to share such a beautifully intimate moment together.
-Relax your fixed attention off of yourself, and feel outwards through your lover, so that you not only touch their body, but you make love to their soul.
When you really feel the soul of your lover it transforms how you touch them. Their body is the temple for the soul that you love.
How would you enter a sacred temple?
How would you touch the Divine?
Great sex is an expression of love.
As you love yourself, you become more discerning with whom you engage sexually.
You see there is no such thing as casual sex. When you have sex, you open up the most vulnerable parts of yourself, and over time there develops an energetic and physiological bond of attachment with the other person. And the process of untangling can be hard and sometimes painful.
The more aware, honest and discerning you are up front, the more you will save yourself unnecessary pain later on.
Before you have sex, ask yourself:
1) What is my real intention here??
Be honest. Don’t have sex in an effort to have it lead to a committed relationship.
2) How will I feel tomorrow if I have sex with this person?
3) Am I honoring myself by having sex with this person? Am I honoring them by having sex?
4) Do I feel safe?
5) Can I trust this person to honor, respect and take care of my heart ?
6) What do I really really want?
Why would you dishonor yourself by having sex with someone that doesn’t honor you?
Bottom line- choosing wisely who you have sex with is the most honoring and self loving thing you can do!
What is it that we are really seeking through sex?
We are truly seeking the experience of Oneness. Not merely some bodies rubbing up against each other trying to get a release for a fleeting moment.
It’s why orgasm is so pleasurable, since for a few moments, “You” dissolve. You are gone. In that moment there’s no separation between you and anything else. And Oneness is the ultimate freedom.
Great sex is when no one is having sex. You surrender so deeply, that you both dissolve, and only love remains.
Love is the foundation for great sex.
You are love.
If you want to have the greatest sex of your life..
…. Surrender fully to LOVE.
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