11 Sexiest Hot Spots to Kiss a Woman for Total Arousal

Written by on May 27, 2019 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 32 Comments

By Eli Walton | Love Spanky

Nearly anything you can do to a woman with your hands will feel better if you do it with your mouth! Use these 11 hot spots to arouse her instantly.

A woman’s body is an incredibly sensuous creation. The slightest kiss on the right spot can send shivers down her spine, give her chills or goosebumps, or make her body shake with delight.

Some women can even achieve orgasm from being kissed in the right place, even with no contact with her genitals!

The right touch for kissing is easier said than done. Bad kissing can completely kill the mood, or worse.

Kiss too hard on her neck and you’ll leave an embarrassing mark, suck too hard on her breast and you could hurt her. If your kiss is too light, you might tickle her. And of course, if you simply aren’t making her feel good, you will bore her, and she will be turned off.

11 perfect hot spots to kiss a woman and arouse her

The perfect kiss in the perfect place is not easy. Really, there’s no substitute for practice and experience, but if you follow this guide, you’ll be well on your way.

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Classic kissing

Of course, when most people think of kissing, what immediately comes to mind is making out. There’s a good reason for this – a long, deep, sensuous kiss is hot! It’s how almost any sexual encounter begins. [Read: How to make out with a girl on a date and make her love it!]

#1 Lips. Smooching, French kissing, tongue action, sucking face, first base – no matter what you want to call it, kissing on the lips is essential. Being a great kisser can mean the difference between only getting a kiss, and getting much more.

A woman’s skin is quite sensitive, and this is especially true around the lips. Keep a clean shave, or condition your beard or mustache so it doesn’t irritate her skin. Few things ruin a kiss faster for a woman than feeling sandpaper rubbed on her face.

Note – Be giving. Guys love kissing breasts, and women love having them kissed. Even a selfish lover will do it. But a giving lover will kiss a woman anywhere, as long as she gets pleasure from it. A great lover is unselfish and will delay his own pleasure for hers. A guy might not get much out of kissing her in all of these places, at least not immediately, but it definitely pays to be giving. [Read: Foreplay done right – The art of really turning a girl on]

#2 Neck. The skin on the sides of the neck is some of the most sensitive on the body. Give it slow, sensual kisses with minimal suction. Drag the smooth, wet skin of your inner lips slowly over her skin and you’ll already start to hear her moan softly. Don’t be afraid to let your tongue play too, but don’t slobber her. After the kiss, her skin should be dry within a minute.

Neck kisses can go from just below her earlobe, down to just over her collarbone. Don’t kiss the front of her neck, as even slight contact can push on her windpipe. Don’t leave a “hickey” or any bruising marks.

#3 Collarbone. This is not as sensitive, but as you kiss her neck, you’re already right in the neighborhood. This is the area where her neck meets her chest and shoulder. Kiss just above the bone, and down from the base of the neck onto her shoulder. Soft kisses with minimal suction are best here.

#4 Ears. Ears are often neglected, but they’re a great spot for kissing. Gently suck on her earlobe and run your tongue behind her ear. This can be an especially good place to kiss during sex. Be careful though, loud breathing or kissing noises directly into the ear are not sexy at all. [Read: The complete guide for men to please a woman sexually and emotionally in bed]

Note – The obvious. This guide wouldn’t be complete without mentioning the obvious. They are probably the most-kissed body part after the lips, so without further ado…

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#5 Breasts. After her genitals, her breasts are the most sexually sensitive part of a woman’s body. Some women can even achieve orgasm just from having them kissed. Anywhere on either breast is highly sensual, but the nipple is the most sensitive part.

You can usually kiss the breasts harder than other body parts, but keep in mind that every woman is different. Strong groping and sucking might feel amazing to one woman, but painful to another. Nipple squeezing and pinching can hurt like crazy, or drive her crazy. Also, in the days before her period arrives, a woman’s breasts tend to swell and become extra sensitive.

Start kissing her breasts slowly and gently. Gradually start to apply more pressure, squeeze and suck a little harder, and press her nipple tighter between your lips *not your teeth!*. She’ll give you cues as to whether she wants more. And don’t be afraid to ask. Establishing communication during foreplay is key to great sex.

Front to back

If you’re sitting behind her or she’s lying down on her stomach, there are still great places to kiss her.



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  1. 1667496910132925@facebook.com' Narasimhan Chakravarthi Krishnaswamy says:

    I don’t like this. O feel this act is left to the individuals

    • 10153545355124892@facebook.com' Heidi Wekenborg says:

      Narasimhan,were you not taught to use a knife and fork? This is exactly the same. And remember,practice makes perfect.

  2. 912570248780651@facebook.com' Malte Benjamin says:

    Tickle her avocado Daniel Ullrich

  3. 875608645827057@facebook.com' Sakhi Shams says:

    Just enjoy from your life ……

  4. 1481345485525356@facebook.com' Aynda Aynda says:

    Hedar Seferi

  5. 10153082371867647@facebook.com' Mitchell Bram says:

    If you need instructions, maybe better to consider monkhood.

  6. kiprutokoech56@gmail.com' Kipruto Koech says:

    you can over or do every thing to a woman you love but one day they will still forget you because they love money .

    • clnAdrian says:

      You really think all women are materialistic?

    • manafmanaf.mb@gmail.com' Manaf says:

      no buddy, you re wrong my girl knows very well that i m not rich and dont have much money and my mother is living with me etc… but she accepted to marry me and she s ready to sacrifice and do anything for me ! so there are still girls who don’t give a damn about money ! there s still hope my friend !

    • Conniekpm3@gmail.com' Connie says:

      Wow ! As a woman I’d like to say how untrue that is insulting. I love simply because comes naturally for me to love someone. I haven’t always got lost back and that’s the truth the capital T. When you do it priceless

  7. vishwnathparashar@gmail.com' Vishwa Nath Parashar says:

    Fine article….must read !

  8. ready2golik@yahoo.com' RICK says:

    I find my increasing your breathing, you increase the level of passion. Then use these techniques. Be genuine. Women can smell bullshit. Before you know it she will be on you moaning in your ear.

  9. amiralikhalid786@gmail.com' amir says:

    My sex timing is about an hour.. My partner is in tension due to it.. And cant release me .. I am so upset because of it..

    • Tariq_Syd@yahoo.com' M Tariq says:

      This guy is a biggest liar on this planet he is oly claiming an hour stay to con other womens and He must be reported. Biggest liars have no room in the society

  10. loharharish871@gmail.com' aashik says:

    I find my increasing your breathing, you increase the level of passion. Then use these techniques. Be genuine. Women can smell bullshit. Before you know it she will be on you moaning in your ear.

  11. manafmanaf.mb@gmail.com' Manaf says:

    i was with my girl at the beach i kissed her in her ears and then she said i made her feel shudder, and i asked her if she felt cold but she told me it was something else while she was smiling, and when we kiss a quick kiss in the lips i pull her upper lip with mine softly and then release it ! she always says that my kiss is tender i dont know what s really the secret, maybe i kiss with emotions or something ! well the ears are a hot spot ! try to pull your girl’s ears with your lips softly or if your are an expert with your teeth !

  12. principzimmerman@gmail.com' eric mathia says:

    This is Owesome

  13. osteenjobs968@gmail.com' Kintu Herbert says:

    Provided one’s mind Is real , calm and focussed, you’ll make the best sexual-move in thy capacity and env’t room….!

  14. osteenjobs968@gmail.com' Kintu Herbert says:

    Sexual pleasure n’ activity is mind calmness n’ focus…wen you close yo eyes during kissing…the mind power en lykwise if you keep looking on during kissing….mindpower and calmness.

  15. zindrick says:

    kiss of girl

  16. samrath says:

    give exazecat point knowleged about excite a woman

  17. Gambo says:

    Thank u guys

  18. Roguewars28@Gmail.com' Prince Romeo Drake Bustamante says:

    No what girls have thier own
    Personality… Not all of girls choose to love you for the reason that you’re rich or in other words you have money you can spent with them… You can still find a girl who will love and accept you if you have a good personality..

  19. daniel says:

    No matter how much you please a woman she will still leave you to a rich man

  20. eloisechan10@gmail.com' HotBabe says:

    I totally recommend the breast kiss. I’ve had it done to me before and it was pure bliss! My boyfriend sucked, licked and almost ate my breasts and did the same thing with my vagina! He said I was one sexy chick!

  21. eloisechan10@gmail.com' HotBabe says:

    I totally recommend the breast kiss. I’ve had it done to me before and it was pure bliss! My boyfriend sucked, licked and almost ate my breasts and did the same thing with my vagina! He said I was one sexy chick! 👌👉

  22. eloisechan10@gmail.com' HotBabe says:

    I totally recommend the breast kiss. I’ve had it done to me before and it was pure bliss! My boyfriend sucked, licked and almost ate my breasts and did the same thing with my vagina! He said I was one sexy chick! 👉👌

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