At almost every talk or workshop we give, regardless of the topic, someone asks about the G-Spot.
Related Article: Stop Telling Me My G-Spot Doesn’t Exist
The question is asked by both men and women.
“Do I have one, does she have one?”
“I’ve been rooting around inside myself, her, for hours and haven’t found anything.”
“I’ve read the articles on the web, in the magazines, in the books, still can’t find anything.”
“I’m sure only some women have it, because I definitely DON’T!”
You do. You all do. There are just a few things they don’t tell you.
Let’s look first, or feel first (couldn’t resist) at what the G-Spot is. In the world of tantra, this is called the Goddess Spot, because the pleasure possibilities take you to elevated, heightened pleasure, or a place even beyond what we think pleasure is; a place where the Goddess experiences herself.
The G-Spot is a gland. It has about 40 ducts that create fluids linked to your fertility, your hormone balance and fluid that you can ejaculate.
It’s a VERY DEFINITE PHYSICAL STRUCTURE. It’s being seen on ultrasound, it’s being found in dissection. And beyond that, it’s palpable for you to feel. It’s unmistakable!
Which makes you think, where has it been, how could it have been missed? If all this is the case (which it is) why do so many women, and their partner’s, struggle to find this? Because — and this is what so few of the articles tell you — it’s linked to your past, to your beliefs about sex, to the inhibitions you have, to the negative, painful, unfulfilled sexual and emotional experiences you’ve had.
All of those things, all the times in life you’ve been made to feel less than, not good enough, every time you’ve given yourself or your power away – that sits in the tissues of your G-Spot. Every time you’ve been touched in a way that has not been an expression of love, that sits in the tissues of your G-Spot. Every time you’ve felt guilty about pleasure, that sits in the tissues of your G-Spot. Every time you’ve felt shameful, dirty or embarrassed about your body, about your sexuality, about your desire, that sits in the tissues of your G-Spot.
You can feel for this for hours, as many people do. You might feel something physical in terms of structure inside your yoni. And for so many, it’s numb, tender or even painful. So despite feeling the gland, if there’s no pleasure, what’s the point? And if there’s no pleasure, then I don’t have a G-Spot.
Learning to physically find this is only the first step. Releasing what’s there is what allows pleasure.
And what pleasure!!!
G-Spot orgasms, deep uterine orgasms, blended orgasms, waves of bliss, ejaculation, sexual meditative states…
So why is this important, beyond the pleasure?
because most women can have, in some way, fingers, tongues, vibrators, clitoral orgasms. which on any given day are nice, ok, wonderful, amazing…
Firstly it is about the pleasure.
an increase in pleasure that’s hard to describe until you’ve experienced it.
Then it’s about power.
Your power as woman.
This is a portal to the state of a goddess.
For in the release you claim yourself.
You claim your pleasure.
You free yourself from the limitations of the past. from the inhibitions, the guilt, the shame, the embarrassment, the repression, the lack of self expression etc.
Then it’s about spirituality.
For the higher and deeper states of pleasure are doorways to spiritual experiences, higher states of consciousness, meditative states and more.
And it’s also about creativity.
For your sexual energy and your creative energy are one and the same. when the energy flows, you have the power, the resources, to create your life, your relationships, your world, the way you would like it to be.
One of the principles of conscious sexuality is using our sexual energy for more than just pleasure. Building and harnessing that energy, directing the power, accessing more of ourselves…
Releasing the blockages, the patterns of the past, what we’ve become, is the first step on the journey of be-coming.
Creating who we’d like to be, the lives we’d like to live.
And when we do this with the energy of pleasure, the possibilities are endless…
If you’d like a practical guide to finding your, or her g-spot, please send us an email, we’ll happily share that with you.
Please remember that often that’s the first step on this wonderful journey into your pleasure.
Much of the work we do with women is about awakening these pathways and opening the door to more of yourself.
We wish you so much pleasure..
Jonti & Anne-Marie
Booking is essential for all workshops, please contact jonti:
or phone: 083 743 5129
Saturday 8 December 12pm
Tantric & Sensual massage workshop
A practical journey for couples, into the exciting pleasures of sensual massage. the workshop includes the principles of sensual touch and massage, energy connection massage, the heart touch, bliss body massage, building the sexual fire and full body sensual massage.
R2000 per couple
Our friend and fellow tantrika, rohan reddy is putting together an event called “tantragasm” for more info on this exciting happening, click on the link below