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How to Get in the Mood for Love-Making

Posted by on July 8, 2019 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 0 Comments

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According to Hollywood, a romantic atmosphere requires an abundance of red rose petals scattered across a bed, a bottle of expensive champagne, a sea of flickering candles, and a ballad on the stereo. In reality, romance isn’t about flowers and chocolates. Romance is about mindfulness and communication. We at Liberator have found that the most romantic moments in our lives occur when you design a night for your partner rather than a romantic comedy. If you’re having trouble setting the scene, our favorite method for decorating for that special evening is to engage all five of your partner’s senses.

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Your goal is to dress the room in a feast for your partner’s eyes, so start by asking yourself a few questions about his or her preferences. Does he like sexy undergarments? Does she prefer dimmed lights? If you’re looking for an alluring presentation, the Esse and Esse Chaise offers curves that accentuate the curves of a woman. Stretch out and elongate your body to let your lover bask in your beauty.

If you’re more in the mood for something spicy, snuggle up and watch an erotic film together. Or, sometimes what you can’t see can be even more appealing, so try adding a blindfold to your foreplay and make your own erotic film.


Scent is often a powerful link to memory and is an excellent tool to use when staging a romantic night. If she has a favorite candle that she lights, get a couple of extra to spread about the room. You could also try adding a Jimmyjane Afterglow or LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle to the mix. Both melt into sensual massage oil to use for later. Also, if your partner loves a certain scent on you, spray a little on. She’ll begin to associate that fragrance with passion and pleasure every time she smells it.

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Music can be a great addition to any romantic evening when used properly. If he has a favorite song, turn it up, but avoid the radio. Nothing kills a mood faster than a commercial for car insurance. Check out our post on the dirty blues for some sexy songs to get you started.

If you and your partner aren’t into a soundtrack during your lovemaking, try playing on this sense in a different way by reading from an erotic book or novel. Fifty Shades of Grey is popular for a reason, after all!

Our favorite way to ignite passion is to verbally describe what you would like your partner to do to you or vice versa. Remember not all sound has to be loud; whisper in your lover’s ear for an intimate way to share naughty secrets. Of course, if you do enjoy your pleasure loud and clear, do it with gusto so that even the neighbors will be able to hear from you.


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