The 4 Stages Of Love And Why Too Many Get Stuck At Stage 3

Written by on September 5, 2018 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 8 Comments


Source: Higher Perspective

1. Falling in love.

They call this the honeymoon stage sometimes. It's where everything is so amazing. You're getting to know one another, learning all the little details, and falling in love more every day. The love is great. The sex is great. Every day is exhilarating. This is truly the easiest part of being in love.

Related Article: Loved & Lost: Rising From the Fall

2. Being a couple.

After falling in love, things calm down a little bit. You become a little more domestic. You've likely committed to one another monogamously at this point and have deactivated the Tinder and OkCupid accounts. This is the part where you're building a life together, and here's a secret:

It can be as fun as you want it to be.

Related Article: 10 Habits That Keep Couples Happy

Building that life can be mundane and dull or it can be exciting and fun. It really is a decision that you make. But often times, we end up in stage 3.

3. Disillusionment.

This is the stage where most relationships go to die. It can come on slowly or be sudden. During stage three, we can be angry or withdrawn when hurt. We can feel trapped in the relationship. You don't want to give up, but yet you find yourself doing things you didn't think you'd ever do.

Related Article: The 10 Most Common Complaints Sex Therapists Hear from Couples

Maybe that OkCupid account gets reactivated for a day. Maybe you find your eyes drifting toward one of your coworkers. But how you handle this stage really sets the stage for the rest of your life together. It takes work to be the best person you can be for your partner. What will you choose?


Tags: , , , ,


If you enjoyed this article, subscribe now to receive more just like it.

Subscribe via RSS Feed Connect on YouTube

8 Reader Comments

Trackback URL Comments RSS Feed

  1.' Sarah R Conkle says:

    15 years ish.. But i dont think i was ever in love.

    You cant Make love last.. It is a state of being. It never ends. Either a couple taps into it, practices it, evolves it, or they dont.

  2.' Michael Young says:

    16 years,she died,in all relationships,ultimately someone leaves,its not about how long it lasts..

  3.' Danielle Marie says:

    Almost 7 years, but it should have ended after three.

  4.' Bernie Carter says:

    27 years

  5.' Deigh Seiyefa Samuel says:

    This is Deigh Seiyefa Samuel and this is my Nigeria:

    My Nigeria is not for sale So please distance your self from that.

    My Nigeria is not made up of corrupt people but smart, intelligent, brilliant, hard working and industrious people. So please don’t come through the back doors. Come through the right way.

    My Nigeria is known for peace and unity not violence. So distance your self with your violence ideas. Its pays to be peaceful.

    My Nigeria is made up of Muslims, Christians, pagans and minor religious groups, we are not divided, we share our believes among ourselves in one love. Its a land of free religious believe.

    My Nigeria is a land of opportunities, so you’re invited to come and explore these opportunities for real.

    My Nigeria is a center of tourists attractions come and explore and invest.

    My Nigeria is made up diverse languages and tribal believes and we still live together as one. So please come and learn the real African metaphysics from the Igbo, Hausa and Fulani, Yoruba’s, Ijaws, Tivs “Benue” etc on how we live together as one.

    My Nigeria is blessed with the best dishes and meals in the African continent. Come path take in our Africa foods which is organic in nature.

    My Nigeria is blessed, blessed and blessed please come and join me.

    My Nigeria is my Nigeria and I love my Nigeria. I’m proud to be a Nigerian…

    Please share this if you believe in one of these listed points is your Nigeria.

  6.' Tanya Steele says:

    35 years. If you want it to last, you have to like each other and be best friends.

  7.' Rocio Mercado says:

    Alexandra Terry

  8.' Tim D Tailsman says:

    35 ,, stay out of each others way 🙂

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

FAIR USE NOTICE. Many of the articles on this site contain copyrighted material whose use has not been specifically authorized by the copyright owner. We are making this material available in an effort to advance the understanding of environmental issues, human rights, economic and political democracy, and issues of social justice. We believe this constitutes a 'fair use' of the copyrighted material as provided for in Section 107 of the US Copyright Law which contains a list of the various purposes for which the reproduction of a particular work may be considered fair, such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. If you wish to use such copyrighted material for purposes of your own that go beyond 'fair use' must obtain permission from the copyright owner. And, if you are a copyright owner who wishes to have your content removed, let us know via the "Contact Us" link at the top of the site, and we will promptly remove it.

The information on this site is provided for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice of any kind. Conscious Life News assumes no responsibility for the use or misuse of this material. Your use of this website indicates your agreement to these terms.

Paid advertising on Conscious Life News may not represent the views and opinions of this website and its contributors. No endorsement of products and services advertised is either expressed or implied.
Send this to a friend