By Trina | YouQueen
Are you trying to make it a little more interesting in the bedroom tonight? You don’t have to go all Kama Sutra, just spice up your missionary sex position…and here’s how!
I understand you; I’m a missionary lover myself. There’s nothing better than the feel of your lover on top of you, looking into your eyes, kissing your lips, your neck, while his body heat warms and covers you during your lovemaking session. Missionary style is the best sex position ever!
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It’s also the most underrated sex position.
Missionary sex position gets a bad reputation and it’s underestimated far too often. People assume it’s boring or it’s too safe.
Let me be the first to tell you that this fantastic position doesn’t have to be safe or boring! In fact, missionary is one of the most versatile of all sexual positions.
You don’t have to pull a muscle trying some contortionist sex trick, you won’t end up in the emergency room for some sex related injury…but you can, and you will, have some of the best orgasms you’ve ever experienced along with the romance and intensity of looking directly into your lover’s eyes while you’re in bed together. Here’s how to make the most of missionary.
1. Throw one leg over his shoulder
Some of us prefer missionary style because we’re too out of shape to really do much else. Honestly, I find it exhausting trying to be on top for too long. If you’re like me, some positions are just too painful to be in because of the way your uterus curves or because, perhaps, he’s a bit too big for you.
One way to spice up your missionary style is to throw one of your legs over his shoulder. He will love the feel of your smooth calf against his cheek, it gives him easier access to grab your ass, and it adds a little depth when he’s inside you. It’s also one of the easiest missionary spice styles.
2. Throw both legs over his shoulder
If you want him to feel deeper inside you, then put both of your legs over his shoulders and let him use his hands to grab your ass and lift your pelvis up to meet his.
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3. Lie on your side
Add a little “twist” to your missionary position by rolling onto your side instead of lying on your back. Let him enter you from the side. If feels entirely different for both of you, and yet it has the same intimacy as when you’re “spooning” each other when you sleep. Believe it or not, this position is much more intimate than feisty and you’ll be amazed at how great it feels.
4. Put a pillow under your bottom
If you really want to add some spice, put a pillow under your ass or your lower back so that your pelvis is raised for him. This lets you do less work, him get deeper inside you, and helps your love making session last longer.
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5. Use a little light bondage
Just because it’s missionary style, doesn’t mean you can’t get a little kinky with it! Missionary position is perfect for light bondage play. Let him blindfold you or handcuff you to the bedpost and explore a little bit of “master” and “servant” play. Being tied up and unable to look at your lover is much hotter than it sounds on paper, you’ll both enjoy this tip, believe me!
