6 Things Consciously-Awake Women Want from Their Man Sexually

Written by on March 13, 2018 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 8 Comments


By Kelly Marceau | kellymarceau.com

Women who don’t love sex or talk about it like it is chore (they’d rather vacuum or tidy up the house than connect sexually) are having THE WRONG KIND OF SEX!

Women who don’t desire sex at least once a day but want to, need to listen up.

Contrary to popular belief women ARE NOT less sexual than men, we are just wired differently. Many men can get an erection and go from ZERO to BLAST in less than five minutes and be like, “Dayum, that was pretty good…” While a woman needs a whole heck of a lot more than that to feel sexually satisfied. Unless her body is convulsing orgasms and she is screaming roars of ecstasy the neighbors can hear, what you thought you gave her wasn’t all that great dude.

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If you’re a MAN and you want to be the kind of lover that makes women never forget you, you need to seriously educate yourself on the ART of SEX and what it means to give a woman mind blowing orgasms both with your tongue and your Prince Charming.

Women are drawn to CAPABLE men who CARE about what they do and how they do it.  You ever heard, “You get what you put out?” It’s true. You want a good lover you have got to be a good lover YOURSELF.

Consciously Awake Sex is an exploration of connection, energy, passion, and transcendental states.

Physical sex is just one level of SEX.

If you are new to the concept of Consciously Awake Sex, let me be the first to tell you that you are more than a physical body. In addition to your physical form you possess energetic bodies and so does everyone else. Physical sex can only take you so far. It’s surface with very little depth, which a lot of people like, given it requires little skill. Sex is so complex that to think you know about it just because you can do it, isn’t skill, that’s mediocrity. And mediocrity gets real friggin boring after awhile

Anyone can have basic boring sex.

Not everyone has the balls, wherewithal or courage to conquer the skills it takes to have energetically connected sex.

To experience what you are truly made of and explore the depths of another, you have to get beyond the physical into the other energetic bodies to become the states of ecstasy and pleasure you once thought only existed in dreams

I’m NOT JOKING or feeding you a load of crap, and this isn’t unrealistic.




Men who are emotionally closed have no real energy pulsing through their penises. An erection is not enough to make you feel the depth of his energetic being nor connect to higher planes. You need to feel energy emanating from his body and most of the time this requires an emotionally open man.

You might be wondering, what the hell does that feel like? When a man connects his energy to yours you know it. It’s electric. Suddenly you are not just a physical body anymore. Even though you are still having a physical experience you are also having an energetic experience that expands far beyond your body into infinity.

Men who are disassociated, depressed, have sexual hang ups, and emotional issues are hard to feel energetically. Although penis size does matter to some degree, especially for women who have caves or tunnels for vaginas, a man who’s connected to his energy source and his soul, can connect to your energetic body no matter what you got going on down south. When two people connect energetically, not just physically, MAGIK happens. Energy pulses and quivers at high vibrational frequencies as it courses through your body making sex a complete body high. Conscious SEX transcends basic sex on ALL LEVELS. It’s raw and primal, and can make you remember the essence of primordial creation. Which is a WILD RIDE for those of you that like to get lost in energy and explore the inner dimensions of being and spirit.


A man who has vision sees sex as art, and to be quite frank you shouldn’t even go out with men who lack vision or creativity. Passion and passionate men cannot be underrated. A man who is passionate about anything and invests himself whole heartedly into the things he desires to do well will more than likely look to sex as art and give you mind blowing orgasms. A passionate lover will have conscious hands. He will look deep into your eyes and connect to every square inch of you. You will feel his energy in his hands when he connects to you. His energy will coarse it’s way into your skin, down into your blood, all the way to your heart and soul.

Every new lover needs to take time to explore what each individual wants and a well trained lover will know how to listen to your pulse, feel the rhythms of your body, and get in-tuned with your energy. A man who doesn’t know how to connect to your energetic body cannot produce this level of connection. Connecting energetically requires one to know how to get beyond the surface of physical pleasure into the depth of your being. That kind of access is wooed and seduced, it’s not basic. Men who take pride in the skills they have will take the time, and treat your body like a temple. These men are the kind of men that understand the alchemy of sexuality.

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If you are reading this and want to know how to connect to your energy or have Conscious Sex you have to educate yourself in any way possible about this process. There are countless resources online. Don’t just wait for someone to teach you, go figure it out.


A man who wants to be a good lover will be a good lover. If he has spent little time understanding how to be a great lover, if he doesn’t have a treasure trove of skills that make you cum back for more, haha, you can do better.

It’s not MEAN or CRUEL to want men to be great men or great lovers, especially if you’re doing the work and investing in evolving yourself. If you want a great lover, you too need to be a great lover. If you don’t know how, don’t go to porn, there are numerous resources available that can guide you down the path of sexuality and love. Seek out what you want to be and experience.

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All men need to learn how to be good lovers. Just because you have a cock doesn’t mean you know diddley squat about what it means to be a lover. A true lover is a giver. He explores your body and wants to understand what makes you tick and cares about how your pleasure. Reciprocity is HUGE when it comes to the art of the lover. It’s a dance, a exchange of energy that is most balanced when it goes both ways.


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  1. 10205917301827711@facebook.com' Bill Glover says:


  2. 1047337108631948@facebook.com' Bunny Brando says:

    organic emotional love is all that matters

  3. 998120423577731@facebook.com' Sukha Bhucho Sukhdev says:

    Only satisfy ur woman in the bed then they need nothing but if u fail they may be longing for not only 6 but endless desires

  4. 10153200013962753@facebook.com' James David Morrison says:

    … and the ONE thing he wants! All together now…

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