Relationships & Sex
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I have been sexually abused several times, in different ways. I can’t even say the exact number of times, because while I remember three incidents quite clearly, I also have an entire year of my life (when I lived with a male friend) that I cannot recall at all. That’s right. I literally, cannot remember an entire year.

Most people would agree that when you first fall in love, it’s the best thing in the world. Your mind and heart are filled with the rush of new emotions and thoughts that love inevitably stirs up within us all, and we tend to talk and think about the person often. And perhaps some would agree that because this feels so great, we might even tend to purposely overlook signs and ignore gut feelings telling us maybe this just isn’t meant to be. While it’s on full function now, back then it was literally like I was walking around with blinders on regarding the subtle signals and hints I’d receive that always trying to steer me right when I’d always pull left.

When life seems like nothing but an unpredictable ocean of chaos sometimes, it can be hard to remember that staying calm is often all it takes to stay afloat. When we’re calm and centered, we’re able to get the best view of what’s going on which allows us to also take the best approach to deal with the issue and tasks at hand.

When we discipline ourselves to shift from an “emotional reactive” to a “conscious responder”, we are literally re-training our minds to lean less on others and be more trusting of ourselves. One could say we are exercising our self-reliance muscles because the more we learn to give , ourselves the chance to CHOOSE our own reactions, the more we are telling ourselves, “Hey, I trust YOU over what the outside world is attempting to get me to believe right now.”

The notion of twin flames has been a source of fascination for a lot of people. There is a misunderstanding about what the purpose of a twin flame is: they represent the perfect yin-yang balance in both people. Your twin flame came into your life to help you become a more balanced person who can access his/her soul truths and develops the courage to live them on the earth plane.

It’s almost laughable what tends to happen when two egos get together to try to impress each other. There’s posturing. There’s game-playing. There’s guarding of the heart and masturbation of the intellect. There’s bravado about what has accomplished what and who knows who. There’s false modesty that cloaks over genuine lightworking. There’s hiding of shadows and disguise of the authentic self.