8 Ways to Be the Healthiest Person In the World

Written by on December 18, 2019 in Health, Longevity & Life Extension, Prevention with 0 Comments

By Jordan Gray | Jordan Gray Consulting

Want to be the healthiest person in the world?

Vibrant health comes down to a simple set of conscious choices. But in order to make those choices consistently, you have to be able to take charge, stay awake, and push back against your own mind.

When it comes to being in the driver’s seat of their lives, most people are asleep at the wheel. They mindlessly slide through their precious years like sleeping robots. The decisions they make for what they eat and what they do are informed by trends and marketing, rather than acute sensitivity to their hearts and instincts. 

The sad truth is that the average modern person is overweight, unhappy, and a complaining victim who refuses to take responsibility for themselves.

They are firmly plugged into the Matrix. They believe that the food they are sold on television is sensible nutrition. They think that brand name clothes, expensive dinners, and haircuts are what will get the love and attention of others. Their happiness is fragile and conditional since they measure their success against external markers that are dictated and glorified by society. 

Their attention is so enmeshed in technology and social media that they have zero capacity for introception – awareness of internal sensation, intuition, and the emotional body.

They are a walking battery… blindly fuelling the machine with no higher purpose or deeper emotional life. They are quietly desperate. They are angry, but sedate their repressed emotions with low-quality, dopamine-spiking food, pornography, masturbation, and compulsive screen time.

I’m here to tell you that things can change – easily. An entirely different life is waiting for you. It probably won’t be in 30 days. It will be an incremental process. But trust me, it is possible to look back just a year down the road and hardly recognize the person that you used to be. I see it all the time. I see it on the faces of the men in my men’s group all the time. I coach people through it all the time. And I live through my own evolutionary struggles and triumphs all the time.

At the end of the day, what you really need is to get frustrated enough with yourself and your current situation that you have no other choice but to adopt new habits and make a change. Without that, all of these forthcoming paragraphs will be useless. 

Are you truly ready to change? Do you truly want something better? Something different?

Great. Then let’s get to it.

The First Step: Information Diet

Throw out the internet.

Obviously not literally, since you wouldn’t have found this article without it. By that I just mean limit your exposure to it drastically, and simplify, simplify, simplify.

Shut your eyes and ears to the endless assault of ideas, opinions, and latest prescriptions. All those are good for are creating confusion and paralysis. Go on an information diet.

Quick tips:

– Kill your Facebook news feed entirely with this app

– Get comfortable saying no to people’s requests for your time

– Mass-unsubscribe from people’s email lists that you no longer receive value from

– Frequently leave your cell phone on airplane mode. Because you own your phone, it shouldn’t own you.

In the digital age, we are drowning in information. There are thousands of different diets and trends being sold as the silver bullet to all your problems; all rooted in cutting edge research that we can’t even understand. But people love to regurgitate it at parties because it makes them seem “in the know” and like they’re potential pen pals with Tim Ferriss.

For every food product and supplement, you can find research that either celebrates or demonizes it, depending on the biases of the author, or hidden agendas of those funding the study.

But most importantly… setting an information diet has a second purpose.

Because all of these podcasts, articles, YouTube videos, and Game of Thrones episodes are distracting from the most crucial thing of all:

Your inner world. 

Health, in its fullness, is much more than diet and exercise. It’s about self-esteem, your relationships with friends and lovers, the capacity you have to recognize and change old reflexes and behaviors, and the little choices you make every day that leads you closer to, or further away from, the person you know you are capable of becoming within your lifetime.

Health and happiness are simple, in theory. But it takes consistent, uncomfortable work. Along the way, you will confront some deep pain and ugly truths behind self-sabotaging habits. But in order to truly change, you must walk through those fires to earn your way to the other side. 

So, I ask: do you want to thrive? Or do you just want to pay your sense of aliveness lip service and stay where you are?

1. Integrity And Alignment

This is the first and most important point because it is what will yield a deeper kind of happiness and confidence that is not based on how much sleep you’ve had, how many pull-ups you can do, or how many zeros were on your last paycheque.

It is rooted in gratitude for being in the world, and pride in the way that you move through it

If you’re out of alignment in your life, nothing will function well. As I’ve said before, aliveness comes from alignment.

What does alignment look like? It will be different for each person, but it means that your outer and inner worlds are congruent. It happens when your lived experience is a reflection of, or suited to, your inner desires, gifts, and talents. 

Related Article: Honesty Is a Gift, So We Don’t Have to Hide Our True Feelings

Are you in a loveless relationship that you just stumbled into? Do you spend hours a week commuting with a twisted gut to a job that you hate, and have no exit plan out of it? Do you have dreams for creative projects, career, or travel that have spent years filed away in the “maybe someday” folder on your mind’s desktop? Have you resigned and given up on those visions ever being a reality?

Being in alignment means doing work that you love, spending your time doing things that light up your soul, and being around people who see you, love you, and challenge you.

Every baby steps forward that you make in any of these domains makes it that much easier to get regular exercise or eat well because you love and respect yourself. Self-care becomes a naturally automatic focus.

Integrity is saying what you mean, meaning what you say, and following through on what you say you’ll do. 

Confidence and integrity are very tightly linked. If you jump on a sidewalk, you can have confidence in it supporting you and not crumbling or disappearing beneath your feet. Now, how much self-confidence can you have if you, yourself, are not solid? If you’re always subtly lying to other people just to look good and please them, or rarely follow through on what you promise to do for yourself and other people? 

Your thoughts, feelings, and actions need to be in alignment or everything will suffer. If your words and actions are in alignment with what your authentic thoughts, feelings and needs, you will cultivate steadfast happiness and vibrant, optimal health over time.

Your heart is always right. You can wrestle with its siren song as long as you want, but you’ll have to listen eventually.

2. Sleep

We might act like robots sometimes, but we are (still) human beings. Your body and mind need sleep. This needs to be a non-negotiable priority in your life.

Related Article: The Steep Cost of Sleep Deprivation (Including Increased Risk of Dementia and Alzheimer’s Disease)

There are tons of factors that go into getting deep, quality rest: 

– Cool your room to 15-19*C (60-67*F) 

– Put up blackout curtains to block street lamps and early sunlight

– Avoid screens and electronics at least an hour before bed (or at least wear blue light blocking sunglasses)

– Read fiction to soften your mind and relax your eyes

– Take magnesium bisglycinate and/or melatonin supplements shortly before bedtime

– Cuddle and/or have sex to relax your body

– Journal out thoughts to calm your anxious mind

– Stretch and foam roll to relieve tension and soreness

The importance of your sleep quality can not be overstated.

Having a consistent bedtime and a few wind-down rituals will make huge changes in your overall health and state of mind.

3. Nutrition

Along with sleep, there’s a high price to pay if you’re not eating well. You need to realize that 99% of the shit that our society calls “food” is trash, specifically engineered to last longer, taste better, cost less, and literally keep you addicted to it.

Similar to loving yourself, eating well these days is almost an act of rebellion.

You have to go out of your way to put good stuff into your body and feel confident telling your friends and co-workers, “Nah, I don’t want to eat there. But I can meet back up in half an hour after I grab something down the street.”

Diet doesn’t have to be complicated or cutting edge. 

Just eat whole, unprocessed, natural foods, most of the time. To me, indulging once in a while is part of living well. When you shop at the grocery store, stick to the outside walls (lean meats, fish, eggs, nuts, fermented foods, fruits, and lots of colorful vegetables) and avoid the middle aisles where all the processed and packaged stuff resides.

Focus on:

– Drinking lots of water

– Eating lots of veggies and nutrient-dense smoothies

– Cutting out the cheap processed bullshit

– Keeping lots of easy, healthy snack options around the house

– Planning meals ahead so you don’t have to compromise in a pinch

The human body is a fucking intergalactic super-car. Treat it accordingly and it will reward you in kind. 

4. Exercise

Like food, water, and air, movement is an essential need for the body.

Dance, walk, run, go rock climbing, go to the gym. Do whatever the fuck makes you sweat and is legitimately fun for you. And then do it a few times per week. 

Feeling fit boosts your confidence but also optimizes your hormones and boosts testosterone production in the process. 

A successful person knows when they have to ask for help to achieve results. Are you better off being externally accountable? Then team up with a friend/workout buddy/trainer to help keep you on track. 


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