By Nick Hardwick | Your Tango
Women love a man with slow hands, and an erotic massage can put any tired, grumpy woman into a quivering, ecstatic girl in no time. If you master this technique for an erotic massage, you’ll never be single again … guaranteed.
Here are four rules to follow so you can give her the best erotic massage of her life:
1. Set the atmosphere and start off slow
Start by setting the mood. No one wants to get an erotic massage next to a pile of smelly clothes, a stack of bills that need to be paid or in bright sunlight. Think sensual and make the room fit that idea.
Dim the lights and put out some candles for a romantic feel. Candles help enhance mood lighting and give the room a pleasant sexy scent. And if possible, put out some silky soft sheets.
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You can also have music playing, but make sure it’s relaxing – think about classical or sexy songs like “I Want a Little Sugar In My Bowl” sang by the lusty voice of Nina Simone. Probably nothing by Kanye West or Marilyn Manson.
2. Resist the urge to rush into anything sexual
You may want to rub for all of thirty seconds before you grab a breast and squeeze, but do your best to resist. The art of a massage is all about the tease and the gradual full body cover. You want this to be erotic, so build things up slowly, intensifying as you get to the good stuff.
Start by relaxing your partner and giving her a good and thorough massage. Rub her shoulders and arms, and get deep into the calf muscles. Kneed her lower back.
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Go slow, enjoy the way your partner’s skin feels under your hands. You can even use some heated oils or water-based lube to really help your hands glide.