By Dr. Emily Morse | Ask Men
We’ve all heard the saying: “Sex is like pizza. Even when it’s bad, it’s still pretty good.”
While clever — and certainly true of pizza — it’s safe to assume this adage was first uttered by a man. After all, with 85% reportedly reaching orgasm during sexual encounters, it makes sense men would have such an optimistic view of sex. Whether it’s Chicago-style, Brooklyn-style or doggy style — if women are serving it, men are probably enjoying it. While satisfaction is guaranteed for most men, just remember that your taste buds aren’t the only ones in the bedroom. You’ve got another person to please, and pushing her buttons isn’t as easy as ordering your favorite slice.
The fact is, women have a more discerning palate when it comes to sex, and you’ll find that each woman differs in what really gets her juices flowing. Luckily, there are certain things the majority of women crave in the bedroom. We want to feel desired. We want to feel appreciated. And most of all, we want to feel like our pleasure is a priority. So while you’re serving up your greatest hits on a day-to-day basis, chances are, her needs often go unmet.
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If you know that you’re going to enjoy what goes on in the bedroom regardless, why not mix in a few moves that cater to her refined sexual tastes?
Here are 5 types of sex that are sure to satisfy her carnal cravings…
1. Spontaneous Sex
Remember, women love to feel sexually wanted and desired by their partners — and nothing says desire like spur-of-the-moment sex on the living room stairs. Unplanned, spontaneous love-making increases the lust factor by showing your partner that your attraction for her trumps everything else. Turn her on by telling her you need to have her right there and then, no matter the time or the place. And depending where you decide to drop trou and get busy, the possibility of getting caught can also bring added excitement. In fact, a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine reported that having sex in public is one of the top fantasies among women — we fantasize about it even more than men do.
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2. Hotel Sex
What’s not to love about hotel sex? There’s the thrill of anonymity, the hint of luxury, and the novelty of doing the deed in an unfamiliar location. Whether you’re booking a weekend getaway or grabbing a quick room for some afternoon delight, the change of scenery makes even the most vanilla sex feel like a special occasion. The fresh sheets, room service and the fact that someone else cleans up after you speaks to our need to feel appreciated and pampered. Plus, when you’re doing it in the privacy of a hotel room, you can leave all the stress of your home, your pets, and your kids at the door — right next to that Do Not Disturb sign.
Give her lots and lots of oral pay careful attention to the clit