By Kara Jesella | Health
Just can't seem to quite get there? Or would you like your big moment to be even bigger?
We've got the dish from sex experts on how you can have your best orgasm yet.
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1) Hit the hot spots
A friction position may help you have an orgasm during intercourse. Get on top, for example, so the top of your clitoris is rubbing directly on your partner’s pubic bone. Or lay on your back with a pillow underneath your butt.
You may even want to try using a vibrator during intercourse, says Laura Berman, PhD, assistant clinical professor of psychiatry and OB-GYN at the Feinberg School of Medicine at Northwestern University. She recommends the Athena ($11.95) or the Aurora ($46.95), both available at evesgarden.com.
2) Talk the talk
“Men really want direction,” Berman says. Let your partner know when he’s on the right track, either by telling him what feels great or by moaning.
Related Article: Studies Show that Orgasms with a Partner Are 400% More Pleasurable than Alone
3) Learn on your own
You can’t talk the talk if you don’t know what turns you on. “To train your body to be orgasmic, you have to masturbate,” says Danielle Cavallucci, a sex coach with sex information company Sexuality Source.
4) Exercise your orgasm muscles
“Kegels are the classic exercise for women who want to transform feeble orgasms into fabulous ones,” sex educator Dorian Solot says. Locate these muscles in your pelvic floor by stopping yourself from peeing midstream. Then tone them by clenching when you’re not peeing. Do Kegels every day, ideally a few times a day. And keep breathing while you squeeze.
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5) Get risky
Research shows that engaging in thrill-seeking behaviors together (whether it’s rock climbing or just going to see a scary movie) stimulates dopamine in the brain, which gets your juices flowing.
Stayce Valle
The right man ??
Or woman!
Desarae Chavarria
Wait several hours after a big meal!
The right man, the right woman, or the right hand!
Who cares
Seriously? Isn’t that a little selfish?
Just wait till you get some stupid Bitch knocked up. She’ll take your kid away, sue you for 500 dollars per month child support and maybe let you see your kid twice a month.
Tell me you give a shit about a woman’s orgasm after that.
Shontay Coleman
Chelci Zeeman ?
I guess you are perfect
Your talking with your little conscious.
Why would you say that Diane Elizabeth Allen Raper
Bigger?? Lol
Well damn
This wasn’t all that much helpful XP but those are good recommendations for the types of women gifts haha (X
Or let’s shoot for an oxytocin filled sexual experience and stop being driven by dopamine and the intense urge to focus on orgasm instead of consciously connecting? Lol man, contradictory stuff.