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Do you seem to make the same mistakes over and over again in your relationships? It may be one of the common mistakes based on your sign that many people who share your sun sign make. Whether you believe in the power of the universe in our lives or not, it's kind of uncanny how right-on astrology can seem sometimes. Especially when it comes to matters of the heart.
The common mistakes and personality traits listed below don't necessarily apply to all people of the same signs. There are a lot of things to consider, like your moon sign and the influence of Venus and Mars in your life. Intuitive healer and astrologer and author of Astrology Made Simple, Ally Mead, told Bustle via email that you really need to take a person's whole chart into consideration to see if they're going to be a good match for you. This brings me to the following list of relationship mistakes, based on some of the most common characteristics of each sign. Knowing yourself better, be it through astrology or just experience and contemplation, is always a good thing. It can lead you closer to what you want, and it can keep you from being guided by your flaws.
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1. Aries
If you're an Aries, odds are, you like to jump into love head-first. Once things feel right to you, you're not afraid to go from dating to married-with-children in two seconds flat. Sometimes things mean you miss out on important information, like your partner's jerk streak or questionable past until you're already super emotionally invested. Decisive, confident types make you swoon, which unfortunately often equates to jerks. Slow things down and pay attention, early on.
2. Taurus
If you're a Taurus, you like shiny things, and that includes sexy people. You might get caught up in a super-steamy relationship with a red-hot sexual dynamo, only to realize once things cool off that your lover doesn't have the financial stability or maturity to build a shiny life with you. You forget, in the heat of the moment, that you need the full package for long-term satisfaction, and that includes someone who's healthy, responsible, goal-oriented, and not just sexy.
3. Gemini
If you're a Gemini, you want someone you can discuss anything with and do anything with! Because you're a mutable sign, you crave this mental stimulation more than sex sometimes. Unfortunately, sometimes this means you hitch your wagon on flighty types who are all over the place. They have a strong of abandoned hobbies and lost jobs. While they're interesting, eventually you'll want someone you don't have to take care of so much.
4. Cancer
Cancer's like to be taken care of. They like partners who make them feel safe, loved, provided for, and special. They're also emotional and crave strong emotion in return. If you're not careful, this can mean that you end up with a possessive, controlling partner, an emotionally manipulative partner, or a partner who you settle for because they can provide you with a home and money.
5. Leo
Leos like drama! They like artists, adventurers, and fun types who can keep them entertained and inspired. You love to laugh and appreciate a good inner-child. Unfortunately, this means you tend to go for people who have great, fun personalities, but aren't the most responsible. Don't stack up resentments because you chose to date someone you end up having to take care of.
6. Virgo
Virgos don't play, and sometimes that can be their downfall. And when I say “don't play” I don't mean “don't have fun.” I mean they are serious people who like serious partners. If you're a Virgo, then in your search for your rock, you might end up with a workaholic or someone who is too serious. Virgos also tend to settle, if they get a partner who looks good on paper.
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7. Libra
Libras don't like to be single. They want to settle down and make a home with someone who loves them and wants to be loved by them. They love passionate people, like artists. Unfortunately, they tend to attract people who break their hearts by being jealous, indecisive, or controlling. And they'll stay with these people for far too long. If you're a Libra, don't let your strong need for partnership overshadow a partner's shady behavior.
