By Henrik Edberg | The Positivity Blog
“If you ask what is the single most important key to longevity, I would have to say it is avoiding worry, stress and tension. And if you didn’t ask me, I’d still have to say it.”
George F. Burns
“Give whatever you are doing and whoever you are with the gift of your attention.”
Jim Rohn
Life today is quite different compared to when I was a kid in the 80’s and early 90’s. Back then I had a TV with just a few channels and later on a Nintendo videogame. That was it.
Today many of us have smartphones that we use to browse the internet, to work and to play games. We spend a many hours in front of computers and a part of our day is often spent online.
There is so much information these days. So many potential distractions and sources that seem to have made people more stressed, overwhelmed and unhappy than they were in the past.
Working and living in this age isn’t always easy.
So this week I’d like to share 7 habits that help me to keep my attention on what truly matters – both at work and in my private life – and at the same time minimize stress and overwhelm.
1. Shut off notifications.
To find focus the first simple thing to do is to shut off notifications in:
- Your email client.
- Messaging programs.
- Social media and gaming apps.
Then get back to what truly matters without those pings hanging over you and distracting you.
2. Keep your smart phone far away for quality time/work.
The simplest way to not be distracted all the time by your smartphone is to put up small obstacles so you don’t have that easy and tempting access.
Here’s, for instance, what I do when I work:
- I put the phone in silent mode.
- I put it in another room at the other end of our home.
- Then I check it a few times a day for calls and text messages.
We often do the same thing during the evenings and weekends to make sure that the time we spend together is quality time and not time spent being distracted.
3. Unplug or use an app to keep your focus on what matters.
When I write a new article or work on a course then I usually do that disconnected from the internet.
If that’s not possible for you then try a program or browser addon like for example StayFocusd or Cold Turkey Pro to temporarily block the sites where you know you tend to procrastinate and waste too much time.
4. Disconnect over the weekend.
Stay away from work and offline over the weekend. Leave your work phone at your job.
If that’s not possible keep things to a minimum:
- Leave that work phone in silent mode and check it just every 24 hours over the weekend.
- Do a quick 2 min check of email once a weekend (that’s what I do).
- Reply only to the calls, texts and emails that are very important. Otherwise, let them wait until Monday.