Your Perception Determines Your Experiences

By Richard R Phahlawi

In this article, I would like to bring you on a journey of exploring the critical importance of the connection between your perceptions and your experiences and how you can change any unwanted experiences in your life. All aspects of your life, especially health, money, time, relationship, love, career, family will improve once you understand the mechanics of the principles that governs our 3D reality.

I do not claim to know everything. You may or may not resonate with the information in this article.  The information that I am writing in this article are information that I have distilled from my own research as well as information that I have received through inspired messages received during contemplations as well as during my meditations. They are a result of my own unique experiences. I have no interest in creating a movement or followers to promote the conclusions that I have arrived at. My intention is to provide information that can be of benefit to humanity, so that they can experience well being in all areas including health, finances, personal happiness and harmonious human relationship. You are encouraged to accept those information that you feel is right for you and to reject any information that does not resonate with you. Every person can only understand from their current level of perception and nobody can force anybody to receive information that they are not yet ready to receive.

Thank you in advance for your interest in reading this article.

You have perceptions about everything, about your health, about your finances, about your happiness, about yourself, about your IQ, about your EQ, about your relationships with your significant others, about the world you live in, about other inhabitants in your world, about your economy, etc etc.

Before I proceed, I would like to define what I mean by perception.

Perception is a specific unique outlook, an individual has regarding any subject. It could be a negative perception, a neutral perception,or a positive perception. This perception includes personal opinions, beliefs, personal ideas, personal thoughts etc. As for beliefs, it could be beliefs obtained from past personal experiences or beliefs acquired as a result of being raised by family members, guardians, teachers, members of the community etc.

‘The world I live in is a dangerous place’ is a perception.

‘When I smile, people always smile back at me’ is a perception.

Perceptions can be disempowering or empowering.

Perceptions that have a negative slant are perceptions that I would like to categorize as distorted perceptions.

I am sure you have heard of the word placebo.

When a patient is given a placebo by a doctor, and this patient experiences healing even though he was given something that appeared as medicine but has no medicinal properties, what actually is going on?

My conclusion is that the healing occurred as a result of a change in perception of the patient. The healing was not caused by the ingestion of the placebo which has no medicinal properties, it was caused by a change in perception during consultation with the doctor and caused by a change in perception after ingesting the placebo.

The perception of the patient before taking the placebo is ‘I am sick’.

The perception of the patient after listening to the explanation by the doctor whom he trusts, that the medicine (placebo) will cure him is ‘I will be well after taking the medicine given by the doctor’.

The perception of the patient after taking the medicine (it could be days or hours depending on what the doctor has told the patient) is ‘I am well’.

You can substitute the word beliefs for the word perception in the above paragraph, however, I prefer the word perception as it has a broader definition to me, even though the word perception is similar to the word belief. When the patient is able to perceive that he is well, the 3D reality that matches his perception that he is well becomes visible to him.

People in general are convinced that our universe (3D reality) is fixed and solid. My new model of reality is one where our current 3D reality is just one out of the many other versions of 3D realities that are existing simultaneously. You will understand as you continue reading. My new model of 3D reality is that this 3D reality is responsive to the perceiver which is different from the old model of reality where the universe is separate and apart from the perceiver.

When the patient perceives that he is sick, the 3D reality that matches his perception that he is sick becomes visible to him. In this new model of reality, the perceiver is responsible for his perceptions. As you sow, so shall you reap, meaning that as you perceive, you shall experience it.

In the new model of reality, there are infinite versions of 3D realities existing simultaneously right now, just as there are many television channels existing simultaneously right now when you are watching television.

The television channels that you prefer, become visible to you and the television channels that you do not prefer become invisible to you even though they all continue to exist simultaneously at different frequencies.

In the new model of reality, the 3D reality that matches your perception, become visible to you and becomes your experience. If your perception is negative, the corresponding negative 3D reality will become visible to you. If your perception is positive, the corresponding positive 3D reality will become visible to you.

At this point, I would like to state the law that governs our experiences in our time space environment, it is as follows:

‘When you are able to provide the perception, the 3D reality that matches your perceptions will become visible to you, and the 3D reality that does not match your perception becomes invisible to you.’

Another way to express this law is, ‘When you are unable to perceive it, you will not be able to experience it.

Yet another way to express this law is, ‘When you are able to perceive it, you shall experience it.’

Our 3D reality appears solid, but actually is not solid at all at the atomic level. Every matter is made up of vibrating atoms. It is our brain that translates all these vibrating atoms, making us see our 3D reality as matter (solid or liquid). Because our 3D reality is the result of our perceptions, we are not living in an objective universe (3D reality). Our 3D reality, our universe that each of us is living in, is a subjective 3D reality, is a subjective universe.

I would like to give you another example of the connection between perceptions and experiences.

There are documented cases (you can find them online) of person with multiple personalities (Dissociative Identity Disorder) who have diabetes in one personality and no diabetes in another personality. Another multiple personality has allergies in one personality, and no allergies in another personality. Another personality has cancer in one personality, and no cancer in another personality.

Bear in mind that in the example of a person with multiple personalities where one personality has diabetes and another personality has no diabetes, both personalities are sharing the same body.

The conclusion that I have arrived at is that the personality with diabetes perceives that he has diabetes. Whereas the personality that has no diabetes, perceives that he is healthy. It is the act of perceiving that determines which version of 3D reality will be experienced by us.

Nothing can materialize in your 3D reality until you are able to perceive it first. (This is the observer effect in quantum physics).

Your 3D reality (universe) is an echo of your perceptions.

Your perception determines your reality (3D universe).

Your 3D reality changes itself to match your perceptions.

What are your perceptions regarding your finances?

Do you perceive that scarcity exist? If you perceive that scarcity exist, then this will be true for you and you will experience this scarcity.

Do you perceive that it is a struggle to make ends meet? If yes, then this will be true for you and you will experience it.

Do you perceive that you (an aspect of the infinite) are poor? There is no difference between you and a person who has no financial issues. Both of you are made of the same stuff, atoms. The only difference is in the way the person with no financial issues perceives about money. The person who has no financial issues has corrected his distorted perceptions that he is poor. If you do not have a distorted perception regarding money, the 3D reality without distortion will become visible to you.

What are your perceptions regarding your self identity?

Do you perceive that you are powerless? If yes, this will be true for you and you will experience this.

Do you perceive that you are separate from the infinite? If yes, this will be true for you and you will experience this.

Do you perceive that you are not worthy to be one with the infinite? There is no difference between you and a person who has experienced that he is one with the infinite. Both of you are made of the same stuff, atoms. The only difference is the way the person who has experienced that he is one with the infinite, perceives. The person who has experienced that he is one with the infinite has corrected any distortions in perceptions that prevented him from perceiving with clarity that he is simultaneously the infinite as well as the finite. If you do not have any distorted perceptions regarding your self identity, the 3D reality without distortion will become visible to you.

What are your perceptions regarding your happiness? Do you perceive that you are whole and complete?

Do you perceive that you are one with the absolute that is love, peace, bliss and joy?

What is the difference between a person who is unhappy and an enlightened person who is constantly in a state of bliss, love, peace and joy. There is no difference between a person who is unhappy and a person who is constantly happy, both are made up of atoms.  The only difference is in the way in which the person who is constantly happy perceives regarding who he is and his relationship to the infinite. The person who is constantly happy has corrected any distortions in perception that prevented him from perceiving with clarity that he is bliss, love, peace and joy. Since you do not have distorted perceptions regarding happiness, the 3D reality without distortion will become visible to you.

The cause of illness, lack of finances, depression, low self esteem, disharmonious relationship with significant others or family members is distorted perception. Correct the distorted perception (original sound) and the 3D reality (echo) will be corrected.

THE NEW MODEL OF REALITY

The 3D reality that we experience is caused by our perceptions (thoughts/beliefs/ideas/worries/hopes/convictions/faith/doubts/confidence etc).

The 3D reality mirrors our perceptions. To change our negative experiences, all that is required is to change our unwanted perception with the preferred perception.

The law that governs this time space reality that appears to be ‘hidden’ is the law that states ‘As you perceive it, you shall experience it’.

All possibilities already exist.  Provide the perception and the corresponding 3D reality that matches this perception will become visible to the perceiver, while the 3D reality that no longer matches the perception will become invisible to the perceiver.

THE OLD MODEL OF REALITY

There is an objective universe that is separate and apart from the perceivers.

If one does not like what is happening in the ‘objective’ universe, one tries to change the components in the universe or blames others for the presence of unwanted negative experiences. If the economy is not doing well, it is because the leaders are not doing their job. The focus is on blaming others instead of becoming aware that the cause of any disharmony is the distorted perception of the perceivers.

If one does not like what one is experiencing in the objective universe, one either try to run away from the experiences or try to eliminate the person that is blamed for causing one to experience the unwanted. It is flight or fight.

There is scarcity, finite resources and the pie is finite. Inhabitants have to compete with one another to survive. The goal is to survive by dominating others or to prevent others from dominating.

THE OPERATING MANUAL FOR THE HUMAN RACE, SO THAT YOU CAN BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOU

Nobody is holding anything from us. The infinite is not holding anything that we want from us. Everything has already been given to us. We have the hardware (our physical body) and our software (beliefs/thoughts/ideas/visions).

The only thing that is holding us from what we want is our own disempowering perception. The key lies in our freewill to perceive the presence of what we want. Not knowing the laws that governs our 3D reality prevented us from experiencing the having of what we want. The ‘hidden’ law is ‘As you perceive, so shall you experience’.

As we continue to perceive what we do not want, we continue to experience what we do not want. When we are able to perceive the presence of what we want, we experience the having of what we want.

When we buy any electrical appliance, for example, a laptop, there is an operating manual to tell us how to operate the laptop. There is no operating manual for me when I was born, and I have always been searching for an operating manual to explain how to operate myself in this time space environment. Finally, I have the operating manual now. I finally have a sense of closure as well as a sense of achievement and freedom. I wish to share this operating manual with humanity, so that everyone who is ready for this information can thrive and flourish.

Think of what you want or what you do not want in terms of frequencies. When we watch a television, there are many television channels that are available to us. We normally pick a channel and the chosen channel is shown on the screen. As we watch the chosen channel, the many other channels that are present but not chosen by us, become invisible to us even though they still continue to exist.

All possibilities already exist. The you that is healthy already exist. The you that is wealthy already exist. The you that is already happy exist. The you that is sick also already exist. The you that is poor already exist. The you that is depressed already exist. The you that is an author, a painter, a sculptor, an actor etc all already exist.

Our 3D reality is a mirror of our perceptions. Our 3D reality is an echo of our perceptions. Our 3D reality is a projection of our perceptions. When you are seriously worried about getting cancer and you continue to focus on not getting cancer, the version of 3D reality with you having cancer will become visible to you (become your experience) as this version will match your perceptions (thoughts/beliefs/ideas/visions) of worried about having cancer. The 3D reality version of the healthy you will not be visible to you for you to experience as this version does not match your current perceptions. In order to experience the version of the 3D reality where the healthy you exist, you must have the perception that you are healthy.

When you are able to perceive that you are healthy, the version of 3D where the healthy you exist will become visible to you and will become your experience and the version of 3D reality where you have cancer will be invisible to you and will not be your experience.

When you are worried about not having enough money, when you are focused on the scarcity of money, the version of 3D reality where you are always struggling financially will become visible to you and will become your experience. If you are able to perceive that you are wealthy, the version of 3D reality where the wealthy you exist will become visible to you and the version of 3D reality where you are always struggling financially will be invisible to you and will not be your experience.

As I mentioned before, people with multiple personalities (Dissociative Identity Disorder) can have one personality with diabetes and another personality without diabetes simultaneously, even though they share the same one body. The personality with the diabetes perceives that he has diabetes and the personality without diabetes perceives that he is healthy. I am mentioning this again to reinforce the point regarding how perception truly determines our experiences. Important points need to be repeated in order for learning to take place.

Patients given placebo with no medicinal properties experiences healing. This healing is the result of a shift in perception from illness to health. The version of 3D reality that matches his new perception regarding his health becomes visible to him and become his experience and the version of 3D reality where he is sick becomes invisible to him.

Your perception is your tuner that determines which version of 3D reality becomes visible (visible television channel) to you and which version of 3D reality becomes invisible to you (invisible television channels).

Healing of mind/emotion/body, finances, relationship, etc. occurs and is experienced by you when any forms of distorted perception that blocks and distorts your perception of a healthy mind/emotion/body, finances, relationship has been corrected and is no longer present. All healing is the restoration of the state of perception that is free from any forms of distortion.

You can find more detailed information on my website at

https://unveilingthemysteryoflifeonearth.blogspot.com

ABOUT THE PHYSICAL ME

As you know, we are not our bodies. We are not our names, but names serve a purpose when we communicate with other physical bodies from the same ONE SELF.

For communication purpose, my name is Richard. My professional background is nursing, but I am more interested in the ‘healing' arts without the use of drugs (chemicals). However, I love the knowledge that I acquired through nursing, ranging from anatomy/physiology, pharmacology, microbiology, neurology. My most favourite subject however, I think you can guess, is Psychology, especially PERCEPTION. I have personally encountered patients who were given placebo.

I am not a human being having a spiritual experience. I am a spiritual being (the infinite) having an experience in this 3D reality. I love all the teachings of the various spiritual teachers from different timelines.

I see my role now as a Perception Aligner. Nobody is wicked or evil. Every person acts based on their perception of themselves and the world.

Someone who commits suicide while bombing others have distorted perceptions. True healing is the healing of distorted perceptions. The most important distorted perception that needs to be corrected is the perception that one is separate from the infinite. When this distorted perception has been corrected, one can experience constant peace, love, bliss and joy.

One will always be at the right place at the right time. One will know what to say and who to say it. One will know when to remain silent. Every thought and action are the results of inspiration. There is no unnecessary efforting.

My favorite quote is the following:

I think that it is important not to take life (3D reality) too seriously. It is important to have a good laugh now and then and just enjoy the journey. This 3D reality is just another dreaming reality anyway (no matter how convincing it is), be it dreams during sleep or dreams during waking reality. The important thing is that once you know that your 3D reality is a mirror of your perception, you are no longer a victim, as you can always change your 3D reality by changing your perception. The most important thing of all, is to know and experience that you are love. We are the infinite and all versions of realities already exist within us. We choose which version we prefer. No stress, no pressure. All is well.

Blessings,

Namaste (The divinity in me sees the divinity in you).

Richard R Phahlawi