Relationships & Sex
Articles and videos on how to skyrocket your love life with expert advice on relationships, dating, romance and sex (including sacred sex); plus how to understand the male and female mind.

In her work with female clients, Rachael Jayne Groover is often asked, “What should I do if my partner is less evolved than me?” Occasionally, it’s a valid question, because the woman asking has a partner whose life approach is totally contrary to hers. He’s being lazy, drinking, and watching TV all the time.

A key element in enjoying the act of giving is honoring yourself and having the courage to say no to those requests you do not feel connected to in your heart; that you know are not meant for you. Once I began to respect myself and my time, I also started attracting people of a higher caliper, vibration, integrity. And this has always been proof to me that the Universe speaks in resonance…

I truly believe the ego is meant to help humanity, not harm it. It is only when we as individuals allow our minds and actions to be ruled by ego does it negatively affect our lives and the lives of those around us. But the ego is best used as a compass of sorts, pointing the way to what areas within us need healing and integration so we can rise up energetically and show up in our lives as we were meant to; connected, yet unique slivers of cosmic Creator Consciousness.

When it comes to sex, it’s not just what we do that is important, but what we don’t do. Most of us have a litany of preconceptions about sex. We have sex advice coming from every angle, and much of it is misguided. When it comes to sex there are a bunch of things one needs to let go of to really enjoy the optimal passion. Here is a bunch.

Everything is energy; this is not a new concept and is considered to be simple science. But a fundamental certainty we aren’t often taught is that while the energies of the Universe are forever reacting to one another in one shape or form, and the forces behind these interactions are electric and/or magnetic, these forces also exist within each and every one of us and are as much responsible for our individual emotional growth and spiritual awareness as they are for the expansion of the cosmos.

The person you attract to you in an intimate relationship is no mistake. They are perfect for you right now. They may not be perfect for you forever but in this moment, you attracted them and were attracted to them for a reason. The best you can do to prepare yourself for relationship with a potential romantic partner is to cultivate a loving and compassionate relationship with your self and clear whatever might be in the way of you giving and receiving love.

Your past doesn’t determine your future unless you allow it. You are not a victim and have the power to create an inspired future. Your choice is in each moment. It’s not your past that matters as much as your choices in the present moment. It’s what you choose today that will determine your tomorrow. It’s how you choose to see what has happened to you in your past that will determine your freedom.

Charu Morgan: Men, this is the first video in a series of tips for you to become the best lover she has ever had. This first tip is probably the most important one. It’s the MOST IMPORTANT step in becoming a great lover that she will continue to open to more and more deeply, over years and years together.

When we are being authentic in our personal boundaries, we treat ourselves in such a way that sets the standard for the rest of the world as well. So, there’s simply no room for “Joe Schmoe” to come prancing into your life treating you like a pail of garbage, because you simply don’t allow it into your field of existence. And this leads us to to expectations which I’ve written about before and gotten a lot of great feedback for, so I’d like to give it another go, but with a twist. This time, let’s focus more on what we expect from OURSELVES rather than those around us.