Love is pure. Love is beautiful and kind. Love is the only most exquisite thing that human beings were blessed with. Imagining a life without love is like imagining a life without the air to breathe. Many people define love based on romance. Love, however, exists all around us – in the smile of a friend, the laughter of a father, that hug from a mother, and of course, from the kiss of your child. Romantic love is a different kind of love. It's the kind of love that makes you put your trust on a total stranger, telling them your darkest secrets and fears, and trusting them not to use such knowledge to your detriment.
Love creates bonds, friendships, and families. Finding that one person to build a future with or build a family with needs not be stressful. You may be surprised by the number of people, both men and women, suffering from depression because they have failed to find love. Finding love, however, requires us to go out of our comfort zone. Meanwhile, love might find you on your couch, watching your favorite telenovela. The probability of this is, however, too little.
Here are some tips that will get you to the journey of finding love. Brace yourself because you're about to meet your Prince Charming sooner than you expected.
Set reasonable standards.
The content we see on the media might actually influence the kind of standards we set. There's no perfect woman or man in the world. The imperfections we have are what make us unique. If you're waiting for a man with a baritone voice, beard, and well-defined abs, you might end up waiting forever. This doesn't mean that we should settle for less. Set ethical standards and not far-fetched physical qualities. You might end up with a man with abs who beats up his woman, or rather a woman with a sexy body who doesn't respect her man. Your standards should revolve around intelligence, good manners, and respect.
Mingle with people.
Many lovers confess to meeting their partners in social gatherings. Get out of the house today. Take a walk around your block or go to a restaurant. Greet familiar people. Don't say no to good and fun activities. There are a lot of events organized daily for people to intermingle and have fun. Take the chance to talk to a stranger on your bus ride home at the bus stop or the coffee shop. Saying hi is one step away to create meaningful friendships. Mingle at every opportunity you get.
Live your life.
Live your life, and have fun doing so. Be happy, and you'll be able to attract people to you. They say happiness is a magnet. Don't stress over finding love. Remember, it will come when you least expect it.
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Lastly, before loving other people, you should be able to love yourself and your flaws. Only then will you be able to love another.
