For those who are not very big fans of online dating, or simply haven't found romance yet, keep the following in mind.
Firstly, don't judge the person based on the sound of their voice. In fact, people have a tendency to sound very different when talking on the phone. So be open minded and pay more attention to whether you are getting along.
In terms of making arrangements to meet, you can never be too careful. This means telling a friend exactly where you'll be meeting the person, and if possible, information about the person you are meeting. As for revealing personal information about yourself, like where you work or live, is never recommended. You also want to make the meeting place public, as well as at a reasonable time when a lot of people will be around.
An alternative for getting a message when you are not online is to set up a personal mailbox. Access is easy and convenient, and it's also very safe and quick to set up.
Think about recording an introduction dating message that will get others interested. But keep it quick and effective, like highlighting what makes you special.
For those who are simply too shy to speak to strangers, there is the texting option. These days, it's a common form of communication, but you can also try a voice message to the inbox of the person you are interested in.
When you add a picture of yourself, which really helps to get more attention, it is advised to keep it discreet. Otherwise, there will be issues with the moderation process on most paid and free adult chatlines. At the same time, when you find that individuals are being rude or just plain nasty while using the service, get them reported to a moderator. It's the most effective way to single out the bad apples.
In case you love calling the service on a regular basis, it could work out cheaper if you take out the pre-paid credit card option. The result is cheaper rates and more time for talking and meeting new people.
Finally, remember that calling the service should be a fun and exciting experience. Once it becomes a duty of sorts, there isn't much point in spending the money. So, keep it natural and be yourself at all times.
