You will all agree with me, that when it comes to the issue of sex, most people are not willing to discuss it openly, let alone, talk about materials and tools associated with sex—like sex dolls, Vibrator, dildo etc.
It so happens that sex is not the only subject that creates this kind of unusual awkwardness amongst people, but also topics like money, gender equality, religion—just to name a few. The truth of the matter is that; there is nothing wrong with these individual topics, save the fact that most people have narrow perceptions towards them.
But for the purpose of this article, we are going to be exploring the advantages of having a good and knowledgeable understanding of sex. And the major reason for doing this is that, whether or not we like it, sex is an integral part of our functional lives. It has been that way since the beginning of the existence of humanity. And it’s not going to change anytime soon.
1. Sexual Confidence
If many people are willing, to be honest about their first sexual encounter, you will find that the majority of them didn’t have a pleasurable experience. Why? Because of the absence of knowledgeable sexual know-how.
Lack of knowledge anchored in fear results not only in a lovemaking encounter that leaves a bitter taste in the mouth of both parties involved, but also sometimes creates a mental dislike for an act that was supposed to be lovely, rich and very pleasurable when done right.
When you obtain intercourse training (so to say), you get a clear understanding of how your body works and how the various parts on the body of the opposite sex are supposed to function in reaching a plateau of a rewarding sexual climax.
2. Safety
It is an arguable fact that most things in life do have a downside to them, or putting that in a different perspective—too much of anything can be bad, or even dangerous. Of which sex is no exception.
There are many dangers and pitfalls that can befall a person who engages in sexual intercourse without a proper lovemaking education. Some of those dangers that can be encountered are thus emphasized below
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Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD)
As suggested by the name STD, these are diseases that are being contracted as a result of sexual engagements that are undertaken without proper measures to mitigate the inter-transmission of various illnesses and diseases that occur as a result of the exchange of bodily fluids that happens during sex.
A few of such diseases pose a severe health risk and, in some cases, can be terminal. Good examples of the said illnesses are; acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS), Gonorrhea, syphilis, etc.
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Infections
As we stated earlier, during intercourse, there is an exchange of bodily fluids which without the use of contraception, or safe methods of having sex, may lead to the receiving or transfer of one form of infection that may not be readily visible on one of the sex partners as a result of their gender.
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Proper sex activities
There is, of course, no doubt, that during sex, we want to be able to try different approaches, styles and limits. Some choose to explore different positions while others choose to experiment with different toys and devices—and for others, they simply want to get funky by penetrating the ass-hole with their dicks and fingers.
Now for those who choose to explore different holes and parts of the body, it is very vital that they undergo or obtain some form of sexual training. Because the danger in fingering, or being allowed to finger—-is that—our nails are excellent spots for bacteria, and before inserting it in your vagina or A-hole for that matter, it should be properly washed and sanitized.
Furthermore, good sex education will make you realize the potential danger it poses for a lady when a man inserts his penis into a girl’s anus and later re-inserts it into her vagina. This act in itself can be dangerous for both parties involved.
And this is because the uterus does have some residue bacteria as a result of its general function (which is to release waste out of the body). And when a dick that was inserted there is being re-inserted into the vagina, there can be a transfer of bacteria from the anus to the vagina.
3. Contraception
To sum it all up, without adequate sex education, making use of the wrong contraception can lead to dire consequences that may end up leading to anxiety and fear towards sex. Did I hear you say how? Say, for instance; a lady happens to have an allergic reaction anytime she engages in sex with a guy wearing a condom, this might make her less interested in sex, not because she doesn’t enjoy it, but rather because of the aftermath of having sex.
But with the right orientation, she can begin to explore several remedies or better still, other forms of contraception that may very well be suitable to her disposition. She wouldn’t have to see sex as something harmful, but rather as something to savoured and enjoyed.