Women: Here Are 5 Simple, Powerful Tips to Shift Your Energy & Attract Your Soul Mate

Written by on May 8, 2016 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 3 Comments

Editor’s Note: You can access a free replay with Liesel Rigsby, “Clearing Your Energetic Blocks to Love,” through May 10, 2016. And you can take advantage of a special CLN/CLASS offer ($100 Off plus Bring A Friend For FREE) on her Soulmate School if you register by May 10, 2016. Use Coupon Code, “CLASS100”.

By Liesel Rigsby, The Energetic Matchmaker

If you’re a single woman who’s ready to be in love, your internal energy matters more than you might know. How you feel inside is directly reflected in how others see you and who you attract in your love life.

So if you’re ready to call in an amazing partner, here are 5 simple tips to help you shift your energy so you can be in alignment with creating that loving, heart-centered relationship.

1. It’s not what you want, it’s what you want to feel.

Have you made a list of all of the qualities that your perfect guy has? That list of everything you’ve dreamed of in a partner?

It’s a good idea to get clear about what you want to create in your life and making a list is one way to do it. The problem is you can overlook an amazing partner by being too attached to that list.

Sometimes your ‘type’ is not the best match for you. Sometimes it’s your ego or your wound deciding on the perfect fit – instead of your inner wise woman.

So try something different. Try making a list of how you want to feel when you’re with your guy.

Do you want to feel open-hearted, soft, and passionate? Connected, joyful and relaxed? Take several minutes to write it all down. Bring up those feelings in your body. Imagine being with your man and feeling this way.

Now, when you go on a date with a new guy, notice how you feel. Are you your relaxed and at ease, the woman you are with your close friends? Or are you nervous, self-conscious and pleasing?

How he makes you feel tells way more about whether he’s good for you than your ‘ideal guy list’.

2. Don’t make him run for the hills.

When you are really really, really wanting your man (and maybe your biological clock is ticking) you can start to develop a quality that makes quality men run away… and fast.

Clinginess. That energy that happens when you get overly attached to a guy from a needy or desperate place.

Even if you put on a confident front, if you’re feeling it under the surface, so is he. And unless he’s got co-dependency issues, he’ll bail. It’s like you’re literally pushing him away.

Once you learn to call your energy back to you and stand in your own worth and value, you’ll draw his energy toward you.

There’s nothing more attractive to a quality man than a woman who knows her worth.

Try this: Imagine the guy you’re interested is standing in front of you. Now imagine your energy on him – any bit of you that is projecting into the future, wanting him to be ‘it’, hoping he’ll like you as much as you like him. Give that energy a color. Now imagine drawing that energy off of him and back to you.

You’ll feel the difference, and believe me so will he.

3. Make room for your man.

If you’re still hung up on the ‘one who got away’, then you’re energetically telling the Universe (and all men who might be interested in you!) that you’re taken. It’s like putting an occupied sign on your heart.

When the man who I was sure was the one broke up with me, I spent years pining for him. I clung to the belief that he was the only one for me, and I thought I’d never have that kind of connection again. I was so afraid that if I let go of the belief that we were destined to be together, I was letting go of my only chance at love.

As I shifted that belief, I learned to trust that there could be someone else for me – someone even better. It wasn’t until I finally let the old love go, emotionally and energetically, that I was able to call my husband Craig in my life.

So take some time to get honest with yourself. Are you holding on to a past lover? Are you secretly hoping he’ll come back to you? If so, make the choice to let him go, to trust that there is someone better for you. Make the room for your new love to come into your life.

4. What’s your BFF got to do with it?

Yes, I know you’ve heard it a thousand times. You’ve got to love yourself first in order to find love. When I was single and people said that to me, it used to really annoy me, mostly because I didn’t know how.

I wanted to do it, and sometimes I even felt like ‘yes, I do love myself’. But my actions and circumstances told a different story. Dating emotionally abusive guys and loving myself were definitely not in alignment.

So how do you love yourself more?

One simple way is to think of what you’d want for your very best friend or someone you love very much. How do you want her to be treated? What do you want her to know about how amazing she is?

Now flip that paradigm over to you. Think about your negative self-talk. Is that what you’d want your BFF to hear about herself? Think about how you treat yourself? If it’s not as good what you’d want for her, start taking steps toward being kinder to YOU.

Other people treat us the way we feel we deserve to be treated. If you want a man who’s good to you, you’ve got to first be good to yourself.

5. Do it with the light on.

If you’re ready to attract your man, you’ve got to shine your inner light. If you’re sitting at home feeling sad about being single, you’re not going to be a magnet for love. A happy woman is an attractive woman. Period.

So take a moment to think about what lights you up. What gets you in your body and feeling good? Make a list of what you love to do. Then check in. How often are you doing those things?

Commit to bringing light and joy into your life. Take the time to do the things that make you happy. To do what makes you feel good. Simply for YOU. And the beautiful thing is… as you shift into more enjoyment, fun and love, you attract more of the same into your life.

Here’s a meditation to help you shine your inner light so your man can find you.

So there you go, my 5 tips to shift your energy & shift your love life. Take the time to make one change today and commit to the path of finding the love you’re yearning for.

You deserve it, and it’s time.

Editor’s Note: You can access a free replay with Liesel Rigsby, “Clearing Your Energetic Blocks to Love,” through May 10, 2016. And you can take advantage of a special CLN/CLASS offer ($100 Off plus Bring A Friend For FREE) on her Soulmate School if you register by May 10, 2016. Use Coupon Code, “CLASS100”.

Liesel-Rigsby-255x300Liesel Rigsby is known as The Energetic Matchmaker for her ability to intuitively ‘see’ what women need to shift in order to build a life of deeply fulfilling and lasting love. She is the creator of the internationally renowned Soulmate School, a six-week course designed to help women fall in love with themselves and clear their energetic blocks to divine partnership. She has helped women all over the world create loving, connected relationships. Get her free Video Series “Clear Your Energetic Blocks To Love” HERE.

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