10 Layers of Freedom You Must Achieve To Be Absolutely Free
It feels really crazy good to make out with someone, doesn’t it? Remember the first time you did that? Amazing!
My first thought was: why didn’t anyone ever tell me it was going to feel this good? Ok, I just had to get that off my chest. Now for some serious stuff: like quitting, going broke, stealing, lying, and maybe even killing someone.
In 2012 I wrote a popular article called “10 Reasons You Have to Quit Your Job in 2012”. It got over a million views. In 2013 I wrote a popular article called “10 Reasons You Have to Quit Your Job in 2013”. It got about two million views on the various sites I posted it on. In 2014, I wrote an insanely popular article called “10 Reasons You Have to Quit Your Job in 2014.” It’s now in the top 10 articles of all time on LinkedIn.
Did you quit your job? If so, you can skip the rest of this article. Go find someone to make out with. If you’ve never done that before I can tell you it feels really good.
The world is divided into angry people and free people.
Anger is a subset of fear. Maybe you are afraid to be lonely. Or afraid to be broke. Or afraid to die?
In 1994, 2001, 2005, 2008, and 2010 I was so angry and scared I didn’t know what to do.
I thought I had to have a purpose, a goal. But this is BS.
There is only ONE purpose: TO BE FREE.
There are layers of freedom.
FIRST LAYER: Free from your own past and future. Which means: free of all regrets and petty hatreds from the past and anxieties and worries about the future.
This is very hard. I have to practice this every day. When you practice something, you get better.
For instance, I’m angry at someone who wrote me an angry email a year or so ago. That is petty. And he or she has his own fears. His own insecurities.
Freedom is a daily practice. If you get 1% better every day at freedom then you become not just free but an explorer. Explore as much as possible before your last breath.
#2: The next layer of freedom is to be free of other people’s opinions of you. You never ride above the clouds if everyone is holding you down into the rain.
One time I ran into a co-worker who gave her opinion about something I was about to do at work: “you CAN’T do that. Nobody does that.” She still works there and is still unhappy. 20 years later.
Another time several years ago someone wrote an article being somewhat cruel to me and taking things out of context.
At first I was really bothered. I actually cried and said, “why did he do this?” We had been friends and he twisted it. There’s no answer. I had to give up trying to answer everyone else’s fears.
#3: The next layer: be free of the opinions of the masses.
While everyone is wearing surgical masks and staying indoors because of Ebola and the fate of the dollar you can be outside enjoying the sun.
Everyone jumps on the latest trend. That trend gets weighed down by all the people jumping up and down on it.
Don’t look towards the future for trends. Look towards the past. What worked before? Do it 10 times better.
PayPal is a great example. People have been paying each other for centuries. But with cash or credit. Paypal was 10x better. How about paying someone via email?
#4: The next layer: be free of the word “CAN’T”.
I need to explain that one. Let’s say I’m interested in basketball. I’m not going to be a professional basketball player.
Realistically, I can’t be one.
Primarily because I’m 46 years old. Otherwise I would definitely be one, no question about it.
But I CAN write a novel about basketball. I can be an agent. I can work for a team. I can be a marriage counselor for pro basketball players. I can be a referee. I can design homes with basketball courts inside of them.
Don’t think of an interest as a goal. Then you will spend your life with “CAN’T” as your lover. Think of your interest as a theme.
DO THIS TECHNIQUE:
a. I draw on a big piece of paper the names of all the themes I am interested in. games, writing, art, business, stocks, entrepreneurship, psychology, health, rap music, podcasts, TV, comic books, comedy, etc.
b. I make a bunch of dots of what I can do with all of these themes. One dot might be “write a novel”. Another dot might be “start a podcast”. Another might be “start a food truck”.
c. Then I draw lines between the dots to connect them in various ways. Label each line. A line between games and psychology. Well, I can write about the psychology of a good game player and how that relates to business.
Suddenly I have 100 careers to choose from. And guess what? I’m allowed to choose more than one. Nobody can stop me. I CAN do that.
#5: The next layer of freedom: find someone who likes what you are doing.
A standard technique in Internet business is to give away great value for free.
Because then you get people to know who you are and like what you stand for. Steve Scott puts up a ton of free slideshares on how to build good habits.
But then he writes a new book every three weeks about building good habits. In just a few years he went from making $0 a month writing books to making $60,000 a month writing books and newsletters about habits.
He’s not an exception. I know 100 other people doing this at least.