Tag: women and relationships
Honor the mother within yourself. The part of yourself that is pure love, nurturing and compassionate. This is your inner mother. On this Mother’s Day I invite you to mother yourself. Whether you have a child, or not, regardless of whether you are a man or a woman. Take a moment today and bring love and compassion to yourself as a mother would.
If you are in the midst of challenging times, know that there is nothing wrong. You didn’t do your visualizations incorrectly, not think enough positive thoughts, or not meditate enough. Consider that life is giving you the opportunity to let go of what is no longer in alignment with your highest most authentic self.
Each time you love, you open and you grow. No one can take this away from you. It’s your expansion. When you open your heart and love, YOU expand. Whether it’s reciprocated or not. Whether the other person notices or not.
When you ask for help you also give others a gift. In receiving you are giving. When you refuse help, you rob others the blessing of opening their hearts in giving to you.
Breakups are never easy. Some more painful than others. Especially when you feel like you have given your all to the relationship or felt like this was going to be forever. You attracted your partner because there were certain lessons that your souls were meant to teach each other. You attract to yourself a reflection […]
Real love allows freedom. The freedom to be oneself fully. And out of this freedom you can both choose. When you relate from true free choice not because of some condition you impose on one another, then your relationship can breathe and remain alive.
When you betray yourself, you set yourself up to be betrayed. It’s a very high price to pay and never worth it. What you think that you will gain will never replace what you lose in the process: a vital part of yourself.
The greatest sex isn’t about learning the best Kama Sutra techniques. Incredible positions without heart connection and love will leave you feeling empty. It’s about the flow of energy between you and your partner, and the understanding that sex is a sacred energetic exchange and offering to each other that has the power to heal.
No matter how much love you get from others it will never be enough if you aren’t loving yourself. Seeking love, validation, approval outside of yourself is a recipe for misery. You are a love addict when you NEED the love, approval of those in your life in order to feel ok. When your sense […]
A man sent me an email asking for my advice: “I am dating an amazing woman whom I love. But I am not sure I am ready to settle down in a committed relationship. I still want to date other women and be free! What should I do?” Real freedom is a state of being. Nothing […]
When you love someone deeply, letting go is never easy. It might be painful when the time comes to let go of someone you still love but know you need to. Breaking up may have nothing to do with love. You might still love them deeply but are simply no longer a fit. Sometimes the […]
The ultimate security is knowing that you are love itself. And that nothing can be taken or lost. If someone is truly meant for you, nothing will stop it, and if they are NOT meant for you, nothing will keep it.
Everything is energy. When you have sex you exchange energy with your partner. Anyone you have sex with has an impact on you and vice versa. So… Does having sex with your EX affect your ability to manifest your soulmate? I believe that the answer is “Yes”. There is a reason that they are now […]
Each person you have attracted into your life is a manifestation of yourself. They are a mirror reflecting to you parts of yourself. They show you the aspects of yourself that you most need to heal, own, embrace, integrate and make peace with. Each person you are in relationship with is “The One” for as long as you are with them. You attracted each other because there are important lessons that you have to teach one another.
When you commit to Love you commit to what is real. There is never a guarantee that a relationship will work out or that you will feel the same way 10 years from now, let alone 10 months from now. When you commit to loving then no matter what happens to the relationship you “win”. Whether you stay together or not, you grow, evolve and expand. What you can offer is the most authentic expression of your heart to your lover, moment to moment, with the intention of growing together.
