Most likely you have all heard someone give a speech before. You may have either attended some kind of formal ceremony like graduation and heard the Valedictorian deliver a melancholy speech of memories past as well as new adventures to come. Or perhaps you’ve attended a wedding and got to hear a best man’s heartfelt, yet hilarious speech dedicated to the newlywed couple filled with a twist of embarrassing moments from the groom’s past topped off with some good old brotherly love. It doesn’t even have to be something you were physically present for. We’ve all seen someone speak on television, whether it be our local weatherman or the President of the United States.

Whatever the case might be, you understand that while listening and watching these various people speak, you felt differently amongst them. Some people may have been able to successfully draw up a feeling of motivation for some kind of cause perhaps. Maybe another got you angry for reporting that a foreign nation had done something cruel to its people. It’s good to take notice that it’s not always just the speaker, but also the information being spoken that carries an energy, a frequency and each has the potential to trigger you in different ways.

Some people are fully engaged when they speak and others, well, not so much. And it’s not so much just the person’s personality, but also a number of other factors that can help to determine not only what is communicated to, but also understood by the prospective audience. Some of these factors include their own current emotions and feelings, the overall environment (including the emotions and feelings of others – exponentially more so if you are an HSP, Empath, etc., just to mention.)

So, why is this? Why can some people deliver a speech and have the entire room hooked on their every word? And how can others be so dull and boring upon delivery that people can literally fall asleep to their continued speaking voice? Confidence, authenticity, and of course the choice of words! (will appear in and affect vibration, tone, etc.)

Another side we need to look at here is human perceptions. Not just from the speaker, but also the audience. And while each is playing a vital role in the delivery of information to and from one another, what is really important here is the energy. Why? Because that’s where the “feeling” and emotion come fully into play and where we can begin to take an active role in how well we communicate exactly what we are intending so that people are receiving from us exactly the same. Remember our emotions or “e-motions” are nothing more than energy-in-motion.

We learn from merely observing nature that everything moves and that movement or “flow” is, in essence, the natural order of things. If something comes to rest, it tends to stay at rest, otherwise, we, like the mighty pendulum must flow with our own inner spiritual swing, or else we risk making life a constant struggle, tragedy, and one huge lesson that we volunteered to suffer endlessly for and yet learn nothing from.

So, basically, that generic, cushy phrase we’ve all heard telling us to “go with the flow” has it right. But it’s only half right and missing a vital part of the equation that will help ensure success in our dualistic reality. And the missing half includes the part where you still need to row from time to time. Yes, you must let the main current of the Universe guide you for whenever you struggle against it, it will let you know via struggle and pain. But if you only flow and never row, you tend to keep your head underwater and so much noise of life gets garbled. Keep a confident grip on your oars, with full trust that the Universe will guide you to know when you must row. And when you trust this knowing and always row, and row with all you got, your boat will never sink, and will always, always, always play the most kick-ass music that will forever make your spirit sing! For when you live guided in trust and in grace, you have tuned into your Soul signature tone and are broadcasting it out to the world clearly.

But if you only flow and never row, you tend to keep your head underwater and so much noise of life gets garbled. Keep a confident grip on your oars, with full trust that the Universe will guide you to know when you must row. And when you trust this knowing and always row, and row with all you got, your boat will never sink, and will always, always, always play the most kick-ass music that will forever make your spirit sing! For when you live guided in trust and in grace, you have tuned into your Soul signature tone and are broadcasting it out to the world clearly.

Your frequency is high and attractive because it is putting out vibrations required to be in such a state which are love, trust, and humility mixed with fierce willingness to go for what you want and make sure you have what you need. This alone will not only change your life but will help to encourage others to want to change the channel of their own garbled broadcasts that perhaps have been causing them the pain in their own lives or preventing them from being heard the way they have been hoping.

This is sound. This is the sister of light and a vital tool of creation we are endowed with and never really taught much about other than it might be cool to play the piano or sing well enough to get rich and famous. We are not taught that the most important focus needs to be placed on our speaking voice. Not only in how we speak to the world, but how we speak to ourselves for this is what begins the roots of the foundation that houses our self-esteem, and beliefs about the world around us. Sound can truly be one of the destructive or one of the most healing elements in life; in YOUR life. What kind of world do you want to see? Speak it until you see it. 🙂

Tamara Rant is a Co-Editor/Writer for CLN as well as a Licensed Reiki Master, heart-centered Graphic Designer, and a Conservative voice in social media activism & awareness. She is an avid lover of all things Quantum Physics and Spirituality.

Tamara posts new original articles to CLN every Saturday.

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In this article I’m going to get a bit personal and share the fact that I’m going in for minor surgery in less than a week. I’m super excited and a bit terrified at the same time because this is my last hope for curing the migraine headaches I’ve been getting for years now. See, I was cursed (some would say blessed) with a very large chest and well, let’s just say that while it’s pretty to look to at, it’s tough to carry around all the dang time. So, I’m shrinking “the girls” down to a more proportionate size for my body frame and honestly this is way long overdue.

I’ve gone through months and months of physical therapy for my neck and back pain and to no avail. I’ve gone for monthly massages that do provide temporary relief as does my morning yoga routine, but frankly…enough is enough! I’ve had it up to…well, both of here (lol) and next week my back and neck will finally receive the relief they’ve been crying out for all of these years.

So, what does my story have to do with Wave-Particle Duality you ask? Well, throughout this journey, more than once I’ve had to give up some activities, go with the flow, and make do with what I could do in certain situations. For example, I’ve been wanting to run in a charity marathon for years, yet because of the pain, all I’ve been able to do is donate a small amount of money instead. And because of the way my brain works, (I think in the “quantum”) I equate this to being like water and flowing around the obstacles put forth on my path rather than fighting against them.

My having to always “sit this one out” when it comes to anything having to do with running could have made me bitter, embarrassed, sad, resentful, and angry…and well I’ll admit sometimes it absolutely did, but in the end I chose to instead be grateful for other things in my life. This allowed me to still be able to contribute in a positive way and be there to support the friends I knew who could run in the race. In other words, I did what I could and I did it with a smile on my face…I ebbed and flowed, sort of how a quantum wave would do it.

A wave keeps going and going and going until it encounters something else; just like a cosmic roller-coaster with its countless troughs and ridges. It doesn’t complain if another wave gets in its way. It instead resonates with it and together they create a harmony. In the end, all is returned to balance whether the interference is constructive or destructive. This holds a great lesson which teaches us that even if the obstacles or “interference” in our lives seems destructive at the time, it all serves a great purpose. Every single thing you experience contributes to who you are now in this moment. And every single road bump serves to build your strength, resilience, and determination, if you allow it to and are open to learn and grow from your experiences.

When the wave gains enough speed (faster than light), something amazing happens! It becomes a particle and materializes into physical “stuff”. It literally changes energetic form into that which we can all now see with our own eyes. Well, when viewed through an electron microscope, anyway. This also holds a great lesson in that if we do not give up, we are making the greatest promise to ourselves and ultimately the greatest guarantee. That is if we just keep moving, if we just stay motivated, in action towards our goals, then we WILL transform ourselves. And with self-transformation also comes the life changes that follow that will best serve you. But it must start with you.

And this brings us back to my surgery next week. This is something I’ve been terrified to even consider for myself for so many years. And yet I’ve transformed my inner world so greatly over just the past 6 months to get to the point where I can honestly say I now love myself enough to truly know I do deserve to finally be free of this pain. And to truly know in my heart that the fears my ego keeps running through my mind aren’t real. And that once I’m healed and able to breathe full breaths without feeling like I’m being crushed, and to finally be able to donate to my favorite cause AND run in the race, I’ll always think of the endless wave that got me over the finish line pain free, and my heart’s inspiration found in particles of light.

Tamara Rant is a Co-Editor/Writer for CLN as well as a Licensed Reiki Master, heart-centered Graphic Designer and a progressive voice in social media activism & awareness. She is an avid lover of all things Quantum Physics and Spirituality. Connect with Tamara by visiting Prana Paws/Healing Hearts Reiki or go to RantDesignMedia.com

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