The Empowering State of Unchangeable Bliss and How To Get There Despite Your Circumstances.


happy-contentedI remember when I was suddenly and unethically ‘terminated' by a well known leader in the transformation world. That series of events could have triggered a domino of fear and anger.

When I told my children what had suddenly transpired, my son’s reaction was

“Congratulations Mom”.


“Yes, now you can do what you really want to do.”

I asked him if he was worried in any way. He said “With you Mom, no way. This is going to be fun.”

What an endorsement!

Then I went to my daughter’s room​ to see how she was doing with our sudden loss of security​.

Her comment to me was “You have all the power Mom.”

“What do you mean?” I asked.

“(This person) did the wrong thing so their power is going, you did the right thing so you have all the power.”


I began to see my situation from the eyes of my babes.

Over the next few days, emotional surges occurred but I did not lose any sleep nor did this leech my joy. I could​  account for maybe 3 hours of distress in total.

​Strange emotional and physical responses were occurring, ​

FD-Universe-Crush-blogI began to cry tears of joy and experience uncontrollable laughter… I could feel the whole universe loving me.

What was this feeling? This was a bizarre​  reaction to what would surely in a previous time have consumed me with fear and anger.

I was feeling Moksha. Pure liberation. A state of unchangeable bliss.

I looked outside and saw more shades of green in the trees than I ever knew existed and saw the pink rhododendron’s flaunting a vibrancy that was unapologetically stunning. They looked beyond gorgeous.

Nature operates with such integrity. It gives with abandon. Whether you appreciate it, it does not matter. It continues it’s dharma.

I realized then the profoundness of what my daughter had ​told me.

I have the power because I operate with full integrity.

The root word for integrity is integer.

Integer means whole.

I was WHOLE.

I AM whole.

When we are whole, nothing can break us. We are all powerful. 

Circumstances don’t dictate our joy. We can realize a state of unchangeable bliss regardless of circumstance

I was free.

Peace filled the confused spots.
Love filled the open wound.
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Farhana Dhalla is a #1 Best Selling Author, International Life Coach & Speaker, and Creator of the transformational Thank You for Leaving Me Journey. She is the visionary and leader of the enlightened divorce movement and  the ultimate ‘go to’ person for shifting perspective. As a ‘suddenly single mom’ to three small children, she intimately knows the overwhelming fear and pain – -and the liberation of stepping into the highest version of oneself. Check out her free webinar Divorce Is Not Your Fault and connect with her on Twitter and Facebook

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  1.' Sumitra says:

    Exactly what I needed to read this morning, after reading a disgusting, dishonest newspaper article about someone very dear to me. I was feeling anger & powerlessness, but this has just made me feel stronger. Thank you.

  2. Thank you Farhana, I love this article. It reminded me of a powerful message that I received years ago from – of all places – a Yogi Tea Bag tag (God/Source/Spirit/our angels seem to find us with their messages wherever we happen to be looking or listening, don’t they :-)). It said something to the effect of “[y]ou can have bliss despite gain or loss.” At a time when I was having interfamilial, vocational and financial struggles, it truly uplifted and empowered me.
    Many of us are awakening into a 5d mentality and trying to do spiritually-based as well as earth-based work, but we also have to make enough money to honor and do right by the people we love as well as paying our bills. It is important to remember that it is possible to do all of these things if we visualize the universe or God providing all that we need. Since we all have a piece of that source spirit within all of us, it is also okay to say that we have all that we need within us, as well. Lastly, lest we forget our brothers and sisters on this journey. We should honor each other, show them love and with them peace and abundance in their lives. Not only is this good for them, but it increases the universal vibration that helps us all, our planet and our universe.
    So, thank you again and I wish you and your family much success and abundance (on all levels and in every way) in this chapter of your life.

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