Good News: You DON’T Have to Remove People From Your Life

“Good News: You DON’T Have to Remove People From Your Life” was originally published at Raise Your Vibration Today.

Are you worried that if you don’t remove people from your life they will plague you with their negativity?

One of the common things I hear from people in the Law of Attraction community is that they are very concerned about surrounding themselves only with positive and uplifting people. They worry that they have to remove people from their lives, especially so-called “toxic people.”

While being around positive and uplifting people makes it easier to maintain a high vibration, it can be hard to eliminate long-time friends and family members.  We also often have other people like coworkers and neighbors who are hard to avoid.

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The good news is that you absolutely do not have to get rid of anyone in your life, and you still can create a circle of positive and uplifting people.

Keeping Everyone & Still Keeping it Positive

How? Well, the behaviors and actions we witness in others are direct a reflection of our expectations.  For example, if I expect my mother-in-law is going to insult me, she probably will. If I expect my coworker to steal my lunch out of the company fridge, he probably will too.

However, if I expect my mother-in-law to babysit my kids for me, she probably will.  If I expect my coworker to help me with a project at work, he probably will too.

The thing is, we can attract “good” or “bad” behaviors from literally anyone!  The trick is in learning to manage our expectations about people.

Energy flows where attention goes

Remember to focus as much as you can on the good, and ignore the bad as frequently as possible.  In time this two-sided approach will help transform the toxic people, making them more positively-minded and easy to deal with (at least when they are around you)!

Now, I know it can be challenging to think positively about people who have treated you negatively for a long time, so be patient with this process.  Over time, your ability to focus on the positive will get easier and easier as the Law of Attraction gains momentum. Ultimately, you don’t have to remove people from your life to be surrounded by positive people.

Happy Manifesting!

XO, Andrea

(Law of Attraction coach & educator)

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    • Thanks Hanna! I love when you tag me. ❤️ I’m still gonna keep removing people as needed, but the timing of this post is cool, as I’m definitely feeling a turn-around point with that. This post is a little simplistic. It’s not just about “negative” and “toxic”… If certain people make it too difficult for you to do your thing, then absolutely remove them. Set your own healthy boundaries as needed. ?

  1. You need to teach them…that is what God wants us to do

  2. Yong Cp Yong Cp says:

    THE PROBLEM ‘ of negative people AINT OTHERS ? It’s YOU? You are A DEADWOOD PASSENGER ‘ to erase others ‘ you got NO RIGHT ‘but in term to rid of ‘ it’s YOU TO RID OF ‘ still you got NO RIGHT THERE’ bcoz you are answerable TO THE CREATOR? Then it’s YOU ‘ to do the CORRECTIONS YOURSELF? To recover from A DEADWOOD TAGLINE? N be a useful CITIZEN. Tq.

  3. Go no contact it’s better that way!

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