How To Tell When Someone Is Lying To You

There are all kinds of people on the planet. Some aren’t always honest.

They sometimes lie, cheat or hide the truth. And it can be very painful especially when it impacts you directly.

People lie out of fear. The fear that if I tell the truth you won’t love me. Or not feeling that there’s another way to get certain needs met. Or lying to feel significant, look good and save face.

It can hurt deeply when someone lies to you, let alone someone whom you love deeply. The feeling of betrayal and pain can be heartbreaking.

It’s not possible to stop people from lying or being dishonest. This you have no control over. It’s only possible to be responsible for your own awareness, discernment and choices.

When lied to its easy to go into a victim position, and wallow in self pity. “Why did they do this to me?” Which only keeps you powerless and serves no purpose whatsoever.

Or you can choose to take responsibility for your choices.

Remember that everyone is doing the best that they can at their given level of their evolution.

Deep down we often know when people are lying to us. There are times when it’s undeniably obvious. However, there are moments when it’s not.

Yet even in those times, if you are totally honest, chances are that you may have had a sense that something was off but ignored it.

It’s easy to ignore, especially if you have no proof.

How many times have you had a hunch about something or someone but ignored it?

Pay attention to this very subtle feeling. It’s there for a reason. It’s your intuition. When you ignore or deny this subtle feeling, sense of intuition, you betray yourself. This is where the problem starts.

In doing so you lie to yourself.

When you ignore your intuition about someone you aren’t being responsible or respectful to yourself.

When you pay attention to your subtle intuitive feeling, you can honor what you feel and as a result make decisions about how to relate with people in a way that honors you.

People may lie to you, but when you don’t lie to yourself about their lying, you break out of the cycle of unnecessary suffering.

So when dealing with people in life, feel deeper, and trust your inner knowing. Don’t just listen to words, feel underneath to the intent and energy.

Don’t get lost in the fantasy of their potential and have an imaginary relationship. Have the courage to face reality of who they are right now directly. This will set you free.

Yes you will lose some friends, but if by being honest with yourself and speaking your truth they fall away, it just means that you are no longer vibrating on the same level.

Ultimately no one can lie to anyone. At the deepest level our souls are communicating with each other beyond words. Your souls know, whether you acknowledge it or not.

Quieten your mental chatter, bring your attention to the deeper level of your soul and listen.

You will hear the truth.

You are guided. Your soul has a GPS. It knows.

Trust and set yourself free.



Kute BlacksonKute Blackson is an utterly unique visionary in the world of human potential. Unlike those who promise to simply help people “get” what they want, Kute’s life work instead reveals to people what they have to give, by liberating who they are most truly and deeply. The focus: Freedom. Acclaimed worldwide for his life changing, one of a kind, transformational experiences, he is considered one of the leading voices in the fields of transformation and spirituality. Kute is an inspiring modern day spiritual teacher and a bold voice for a new generation. He leads transformational journeys to Bali (get more info here).  He also helps women overcome any and all obstacles to love with his “The Man Breakthrough Experience” , the Women’s Seminar.

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  1.' The Daily Truth says:

    Follow Us To Learn The Daily Truth !

  2.' Yoj Allinaraj says:

    Full of excuses. I can vibrate it that he lied.

  3.' Patrise Bullock says:

    When their mouth opens. LOL!!!

  4.' Barbara Lee says:

    I can tell when someone is lying just by looking in their eyes.

  5.' Madeline Rodriguez says:

    They Avoid Eye Contact , Yep …

  6.' Dawn Doucette says:

    I can tell someone is lying because their lips are moving

  7.' Nathan Dunning says:

    I wonder how many know the entire system is a lie 😉

  8.' Sonia Bonner says:

    It’s common sense

  9.' Mark Campbell says:

    What the Hell does it matter when most people lie to themselves more than others?

  10.' Eduardo Quirante Lomocso says:

    Why are we preoccupied with other people’s lying. Let them be as long as you do not lie on your own.

  11.' David Copping says:

    Rubbish. Humans are very good at hiding things from each other. A world without some deceit would be an even more dangerous place to live than it is now.

  12.' Zara Appadoo says:

    The truth x

  13.' Madeline Rodriguez says:

    Seriously, Live your Life And Mind Your Business. Don’t worry what people are doing …

  14.' Sonya Swinea says:

    the more elaborate the story the bigger the lie…

  15.' Algonquin J Calhoun says:

    What the hell is THAT???

  16.' Kat Lopez says:

    just turn on the news!

  17.' Nenen Sarigumba says:


  18. Anonymous says:

    Some people lie because THEY are just plain old liers?

  19.' Darren Walshe says:

    What if your paranoid

  20.' Glyn Morrall says:

    It’s easier being truthful than layering lie upon lie, and trying to remember them

  21.' Vincent Tan says:

    Sheer ConScience…

  22.' Anna Ngpt says:

    If I am here for a reason…someone wants to sever my head…then to save to live…
    Lie all you can….

  23.' Asha Baldew says:

    oh, i have a radar for lying people….

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