A Female Sex Coach Shares How to Be the Best Lover She’s Ever Had

Written by on September 26, 2017 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 16 Comments


By Christina Antonyan | Confident Lover

“A good orgasm is satisfying, but a great orgasm can be a revelation of your deepest being, unfolding the truth of who you are in ecstatic communion with your lover.” ~ David Deida

A woman’s pleasure is a very powerful force. A woman’s overall well being is often affected by the quality of her sexual experiences.

Too many women are not experiencing the pleasures they crave during lovemaking. This is partly because many men are only physically present, but energetically absent.

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Often lovemaking is a genital affair of hard and fast sex. There is a time and place for that too.

But for a woman to bond and surrender to you, she needs your presence, strength, your masculine energy and your firmness to be unrestricted. Only then can she surrender herself to you.

Most women are attracted to the sensuality of sex – not only to the sex act itself, but to the richness of the whole experience – touching, tasting, candle light, music, scents.

Making love is one of life’s greatest pleasures. Awareness and attitude can intensify both partners’ sexual experience and pleasure.

Here are some suggestions you can immediately add to your love life to become the best lover she’s ever had. 

Fantasy Can Be the Poetry of Sex 

Her biggest sexual organ is her mind. Awaken her inner lover by turning on her imagination, before stimulating her clitoris.

Provoking her imagination creates anticipation, because her mind will start racing with the possibilities of what might happen when your bodies come together.

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The Power Of Touch

A good lover’s hands never stop moving. A woman’s sexuality is spread throughout her body.

A lot of women love being touched, because it makes them feel desired, attractive, relaxed, sensual and sexual.

Touching her sensually allows you to learn which areas she likes teased and touched.

Every woman receives pleasure differently, and most women love to be nurtured, teased and touched before they are “pleased.”

Surrendering To You 

For a woman to melt into the experience, she has to allow herself to let go and be completely open. The only way she can be taken with intense pleasure is to be relaxed in your presence.

This means she has to trust and feel you. Not just feel you inside her, but feel your presence. She has to feel that you are capable of providing safe space for her to completely let go.

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Performing Vs. Deep Penetration

Penetrate her body with yours when she’s ready to receive you. Practice many styles of penetrative thrusts – shallow and deep, fast and slow, filling her with the strength of your body and being continuously sensitive to her responses.


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  1. I think she wants a connection but I’m pretty clueless about these things just do what makes her purr, that I can do! No, silly just kidding I cant.

  2. Mary Davis Mary Davis says:

    I’m sorry, but I just keep thinking of that NY tabloid headline by Marla Maples – The Best Sex Ever. Yuck.

  3. How do I get someone to have sex with me?

  4. Alot of men just seem more concerned with their own satisfaction. And seem to think if they’re having a good time you must be too!!

  5. When you love someone, that makes all the difference, following rules and guidelines can never make her tick like when you love her with all your heart… True story, and I’m sure many who have experienced being loved can vouch that it’s the truth

  6. Well that said fuck all..
    Jeesh, kinda common sense there

  7. brooksjon82@gmail.com' Jon tacoma says:

    I definitely want yo please my woman. We have been together for 4 years. And I have been having performance issues where I wont get hard or am just not wanting enough as I should as she does. Makes me feel worthless but the worst of the worst is she feels it’s her. 🙁 can anyone give me advice to preform better and more often.

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