Create a Sexual Bucket List to Spice Up Your Love Life

Posted by on November 21, 2017 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 7 Comments


sexual bucket listBy Gabrielle Moore

Editor’s Note: This article invites you to be uninhibited and unlimited in the way you think about and communicate about sex with your partner. It challenges you to accept all that you or your partner may desire. If any part of love making/sexual activity is offensive to you, then you may wish to skip this post.

Have you ever heard of a bucket list? Well, it’s a list of things you want to do before you die. It shouldn’t sound morbid, it’s actually a great way to make sure you realize some of your life’s dreams and goals. On your typical bucket list you might find things like: visit Antarctica, climb Mount Everest, reunite with my childhood best friend, make a million dollars before age 65, etc. Well, today we’re going to talk about a bucket list that is a little more racy than your typical one. It’s a sexual bucket list. Sexual things you want to do before you go.

A sexual bucket list is not only a fun challenge for you, it is also an amazing way to get ideas for how to improve your sexual relationship with your partner. If you feel like things have been in a rut lately, do new and different things is a great way to propel yourself right out of that funk. If you’re currently single, a sexual bucket list can take on a new meaning and include things that the relationship list might not have.

Keep in mind with this kind of list that the idea isn’t to complete it in one month. The list might take some time. You might add things along the way and take other things off without completing them. If you’re in a relationship you have to remember that all things on the list are subject to your partner’s approval. It’s a fun way to spice things up and keep things interesting in your relationship. A bucket list is meant to take time to complete, so enjoy it, don’t rush it!

Today I’m going to share a sample bucket list with you to get some ideas flowing. A fun way to share this with your partner is for each of you to separately make your own list and then get together to share what you’ve written. It’s a great way to learn about your partner’s secret fantasies or what she really loves to do. Another idea is to make a couple’s list together. Both ideas are great, but making them separately allows you to really be open about things you want to try.

Here is my sample list, some things will be on the tame side, others will be much more racy. Take from it what you like and leave what you don’t!

1. Have sex vacation weekend where you have sex at least 10 times in one weekend
2. Have sex in a jacuzzi
3. Have sex in a parking lot (car optional!)
4. Visit a swingers club (you don’t have to participate, you can just watch if you want!)
5. Have sex on a sex swing


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  1.' Christina Smith says:

    Isn’t it called a Fuckit List? Lol

  2.' Stephen Jeske says:

    I’m gonna need a bigger bucket

  3.' Megan McLaughlin says:

    Abe Kaloko we have to try this lol

  4.' Steve Elder says:

    I don’t have to worry about the mile hile club…we live in Durango,CO..the elevation is 6500 feet. I’ve been a member for many years.

  5.' Amanda Lynne Huckins says:

    This could also be called “Ways we could possibly get arrested” bucket list.

  6.' Karl Meinhardt says:


  7.' says:

    The problem with tips and tricks is that in long term relationships boundaries and expectations quietly get established and one or both partners can have a hard time breaking free from those tacit restrictions. So, they inevitably revert back to what they always do, even if they try a suggestion or two on some random whim. It is hard to break out of those routines, but if those stable but stagnant partners both would like to spice things up, we lay out the roadmap on our website free for all to enjoy. And if you find you need help making it happen, we can help with that as well.

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