Women need to be aroused longer than a man does to be able to orgasm. Most women need 20 to 40 minutes of stimulation to orgasm, where most men need 2 – 3 minutes, or even less. You see the disparity. Learn why most women aren’t being satisfied during intercourse and how to change that.
The main reason is this: the G-Spot is extremely sensitive to pressure, so most women react to the initial discomfort and stop the stimulation. Because it’s comprised of erectile tissue, the G-spot has a ribbed texture like a washboard, and the first touch of this sensitive area creates a strong urge to urinate. Most women experience this feeling and don’t push through the initial discomfort.
When you dive into the tantric world of sacred sexuality, you discover that practices like semen retention can allow men to make love for an hour or more in one session, and in some cases, even experience multiple orgasms just like women do.
Why then in so many relationships is there little reciprocity? Men complain about not getting enough oral sex, which makes me wonder, are they giving as much as they want in return? Women complain that they are generous with favors of the oral kind, yet their men don’t return the favor. Houson, we have a problem!
Women want pleasure as much as the next guy. The issue is our desire. Women want to want sex, but when our desire doesn’t match our thoughts, our bodies can’t engage in receiving pleasure. Without our brain and body being in alignment, our efforts and desire can be met with frustration or even pain. For just […]
I discovered my husband was gay after we were married. I wrote this article to assist you. Within 30 days of our divorce, I met three women who married gay men, unknowingly. I hope this helps deepen your compassion and understanding.
Since the dawn of time women have been programmed to take care of other’s needs. It is in our DNA. We are taught at an early age to cook good food for our families, be loving caretakers of our children and partners, and to put everyone’s needs above our own. Pleasing others is deeply programmed into the core of […]
Relationships naturally have ups and downs. Sometimes we feel very connected to our spouses and other times we may wonder what brought us together in the first place. We can sometimes feel alienated, resentful and angry with the person we are married to. We are different. Men and women are wired differently with differing needs. […]
Events in our lives help us to unravel unanswered questions. After being on a healing path for over 30 years, I recently experienced a rift in my own personal universe. I knew there were parts of my childhood that I did not remember, for a reason. Our denial of events is our soul’s way of […]
Letting go of the need to be perfect is key to softening and opening our hearts to receiving love.
