4 Easy Massage Techniques YOU Can Do to Prepare HER for Better Sex

Written by on July 27, 2018 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 46 Comments

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By Desiree Gallas |Mens's Fitness

Admit it, you’ve probably given your woman more than one half-assed rubdown thinking it was all you had to do to warm her up for sex. But you can do better. “Think of massage as sex without the penetration,” says Juan Urosa, a licensed massage therapist from New York City’s acclaimed Great Jones Spa. These 4 massage tips will help turn her on so you both have better sex.

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 Get her relaxed before you amaze her. “Prepare a bath and pour in some essential oils,” Urosa says. (You’ll find them in any “chick” store.) “The bath will get her muscles ready for the massage.” And it gives you an excuse to towel her off.


Have her lie on your bed, facedown. Soften your hands with massage oil, then start rubbing her feet, not her back. “We have thousands of nerve endings in our soles that stimulate the entire nervous system,” Urosa says. “Massage each foot, then slowly move up to her calves, then legs, and so on.” Keep the progression slow.



“Start with compressions—lean on the heels of your palms and apply pressure onto her muscles,” Urosa says. Then knead—don’t poke—her muscles with your fingers. Feather strokes are great on tender areas. Just roll your fingers back and forth while you move your hands up and down the muscle. “Pay attention to the top part of each muscle where it meets the bone.”


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“Her inner thighs up to her pelvic bone, her glutes, and pectoral muscles are all highly sensual areas,” Urosa says. They’re also neglected by the pros. “Use compressions followed by kneading on the inner thighs, butt, and tailbone, and feather strokes on the breasts.”

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Bonus Tip:
Ninety-one percent of women say their whole day would be better if they could find just 10 minutes a day to relieve their stress. So get to it!

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  1. 1642787472653049@facebook.com' Tiney Bailey says:

    That vagina rules!!

  2. 10207337514613999@facebook.com' Danny Fokke says:

    Als dit een hint is ?????

  3. 203738689974561@facebook.com' Jackie Gorman says:

    Yes love those massages

  4. 160978534272455@facebook.com' Sandra Hughes says:

    i wish lol

  5. 1150595674953652@facebook.com' Leisa Turner says:

    Robert John Turner….

  6. 1551041398520486@facebook.com' Ruby Cervantes says:

    Rick Garnica

  7. 10155937203915212@facebook.com' Beck Boots says:

    Maryrose Burrow

  8. 1242375625778354@facebook.com' Sharlene Klaas Jensen says:

    LOLOL I am not wired the same as the rest of women apparently, if I’m breathing I’m ready!!!

  9. 214712848872379@facebook.com' Eclectic Jellyfish says:

    Ha!! Foot massage my ass!! Look at that dude I’m sure it’s not just the bath getting her wet… Lol

  10. 937986956239099@facebook.com' Ash Marie says:

    Jimmy Mcqueen

  11. 10153853671032463@facebook.com' Carlie Carter says:

    Matt ?

  12. 1740438126186148@facebook.com' Marcia Pluschke says:

    Sounds lovely.

  13. 1008542732545127@facebook.com' Lee Polack says:

    same with us men

  14. 10207337514613999@facebook.com' Danny Fokke says:

    Some are worth it some not. Maybey That is the problem.

  15. 10206870098563545@facebook.com' Alleah Marie Swearse says:

    John Andrea

  16. 10207526520755486@facebook.com' T.J. KeySer says:

    Is one of em looking like the dude in the picture. Bahaha

  17. 1009820529069551@facebook.com' Tee Stokes says:

    you mean you cant just say, ” get them off sheila ” ?

  18. 10154445409443998@facebook.com' Groube Jennifer says:

    Thomas Berger

  19. 10153808013827660@facebook.com' Kylie Cole says:

    Oh is this what you meant Gerard West. I’ll show Vagelli Bigs Papazoglou lol

  20. 223493597984511@facebook.com' Archana Ganguli says:

    Saptarshi Paul xD

  21. 10207247595481728@facebook.com' Björg Nilsson says:

    Kim Bendix ?

  22. 10205757146583784@facebook.com' Mike Marmande says:

    Just with a club

  23. 10208680374795629@facebook.com' Cristiane Lobo says:

    Antonio Carlos Jantsch watch and learn! lol

  24. 10207867241586405@facebook.com' Contreras Kassandra says:

    El Jabel

  25. 10208099568108852@facebook.com' Beata Molnar says:

    Jesse Pizzello

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