3 Tips to Create the Kind of Intimacy That Makes a Man Fall Deeply In Love With You

Written by on November 3, 2017 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 21 Comments

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By Rori Raye | yourtango.com

A man putting you at ease is important, but are you doing the same for him?

Do you know how to create the kind of intimacy that makes a man fall more deeply in love with you every day?  Read on to learn the keys to making him feel you’re the one woman he can truly let himself go with.

In order to have the relationship you've always wanted, you need to be able to create true intimacy with a man. Intimacy isn't about being physical – it's what happens when two people feel safe enough to reveal themselves emotionally in front of each other. It takes two to create this kind of intimacy. Here's what you can do:

1. Create The Necessary Safety  
What makes a man fall for one woman and not another? She's the one who makes him feel accepted for who he is, warts and all. Unless you can create this safety with a man, he will not be able to let his guard down with you…and share the emotional intimacy required for a lasting relationship.

Related Article: 5 Ways to Start a Sexy Conversation for More Intimacy

A powerful way to create safety with a man is to withhold judgment and show him tons of appreciation. When you don't judge a man or criticize him, he will feel accepted by you. He won't feel that you will reject him. As a result, he starts to become more and more comfortable in your presence until he realizes you are the woman he needs in his life.

So, say a man takes you to see a show, and it turns out to be a real downer. Instead of talking about the finer points of the performance, tell him how happy it made you that he made plans with you, and how great it feels simply to spend time with him. When he feels he can do things right with you, he will feel that you appreciate and accept him for who he is. The more he feels accepted, the more intimacy develops.

Related Article: The Secret to Intimacy | The Science of Love

2. Be Open And Vulnerable  
Another way to instantly make a man feel safe in your presence, let down his guard, and create emotional intimacy is to allow yourself to be vulnerable first.  This means you let him in on your real feelings rather than keeping them bottled up.

Say you're on your first date with him and you’re feeling nervous. Tell him! When you’re not afraid to express how you feel, he will find it endearing and feel it’s also safe for him to tell you what he’s really feeling.

When you speak from your heart, you do something very powerful: you are unleashing your inner Siren – the mesmerizing, feminine part that makes a man fall in love.  And when that happens, you’re opening the door for more intimacy than you've ever imagined.

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  1. 10204794902890972@facebook.com' Zenith McCafferty says:


  2. 852461434802905@facebook.com' Elmena Nicholas says:

    And if you want your woman to open up too you???I’m feeling a bit?????

  3. 1884703325087400@facebook.com' Aurora Bonucci says:

    I am not even going to bother.. when will people figure out how god damn boring it is to sum people up like this? No one person, sex and gender aside, is alike.. also what is with this “make a man fall deeply in love with you” bs? That’s not even a thing. Unless we are talking about misguiding a person? I dont know.. i just think it’s way more interesting and worth it to find out who a person is and how they want to be loved (and then loving them that way if you’re into it) rather than assuming and buying into this petty shit. Loving a person is not making them fall in love with you.. it’s letting them be and loving them regardless. Also, why is it the woman or other persons responsibility to make the other feel comfortable? I say that is something each person should do on thier own individually, being comfortable in their own skin.. but sure, of course if you actually love them you shouldn’t have to MAKE them feel comfortable.. or make them feel anything but loved. Wouldn’t that just be natural? This is also likely to be just obnoxiously misogynistic. Rant over..i shouldn’t be on fb past 12am.

    • 10155976989680721@facebook.com' Natalia Tinks P says:

      You just saved me having to write anything! Thank you ?

    • 1039481026061964@facebook.com' Alex Crofford says:

      You just saved me having to read the article ?

    • eelkevanhoof@gmail.com' Eelke says:

      Well said Aurora! The articles on relationships and sexuality on this site are all about fixing the other or finding tricks to make things better. It’s not about a better orgasm or a better partner. That’s still about trying to fix the world out there instead of looking what you have created in your life. It’s all in you. Everything! If you feel insecure in a relationship you have to deal with it. Not your partner. Your partner is just being the perfect mirror to reflect that. The save space reside within you. There are a lot of articles on this site which have absolutely nothing to do with true spirituality. They are just dealing with ego needs but are sprinkled with spiritual fairy dust. Ditch it I’d say and become real because that’s what awakening people really need at this time.

  4. 1517308208559524@facebook.com' Chelsea Meney says:

    Thank you Aurora Bonucci well said

    • 1884703325087400@facebook.com' Aurora Bonucci says:

      Of course.. i mean we’re are supposedly talking about “Conscious Life News” so i figure bringing some consciousness to the conversation is a good idea. ?

    • 1517308208559524@facebook.com' Chelsea Meney says:

      Aho lmao tell em

    • 1884703325087400@facebook.com' Aurora Bonucci says:

      I am loving all the life updates btw. So inspiring.. love to live vicariously thru your posts.

    • 1517308208559524@facebook.com' Chelsea Meney says:

      My blog I am writing is turning into a book. I’ll have to show you my photos and all once it’s all complete 🙂 I’m thinking about making a memories video. It’s incredible here. Heaven on earth <3 I see humpbacks everyday and listen to orcas/see orcas when they choose to come by the lab

    • 1884703325087400@facebook.com' Aurora Bonucci says:

      I would love to read it! Would you send me the link?

    • 1884703325087400@facebook.com' Aurora Bonucci says:

      Sounds like a dream

    • 1517308208559524@facebook.com' Chelsea Meney says:

      It’s still in construction mode in word and probably will be for a few more months lol

  5. 10203579329643906@facebook.com' Vincent Tan says:

    ViceVersa? (Y) CLN…

  6. 10207174557180260@facebook.com' Deidra Volta says:

    “Make a man fall deeply in love with you”….and…time to unlike this page…

  7. 10153117834328297@facebook.com' Terrie LaSpesa says:

    So many angry, bitter women out there. Not wonder they can’t’ find love.

  8. 1685130795039850@facebook.com' Muyleng Lim says:

    Srong Pheng Kao ^^

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