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20 Sex Secrets (From Women) That Will Rev Up Your Love Life

Posted by on August 22, 2018 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 6 Comments

Rhea Seymour | Best Health


Canadian women share intimate tips on sex toys, videos and more.

Wish you could get some more va-va-voom into your bedroom? Paying a little extra attention to your sex life may be all it takes to transform it from so-so to sizzling. “Women put a lot of effort into their careers, friendship and parenting—they read books and talk to other people about them,” says Joan Marsman, a couples and sex therapist in Toronto. Good sex requires the same level of attention and education. As she says, “That means making time for sex, thinking about it and making sure you have enough energy for it.” We asked Canadian women from coast to coast to share their best sex tips (but changed their names to protect their privacy). Read on to get inspired, and then share your own naughty secrets using the comments button below!

1. Rev your engine
“To get in the mood for an evening of sex, I start thinking about it in the afternoon and fantasizing about how good it will feel. By the time I put my toddler to bed and have a glass of wine, I already feel aroused.” Jana, Toronto

2. Give to receive
“Be generous outside of the bedroom with foot rubs, shoulder rubs and loving words. Little signs of affection can build up and put you both in a mood that you weren’t necessarily expecting.” Pauline, Winnipeg

3. Steam things up
“My husband and I shower together four or five days a week. Most mornings we’re simply shampooing and soaping before the kids get up, but it sure is sexy to see his glistening body like that. And there is the occasional morning when we start making lunches a little later than usual…” Kerry, Toronto

4. Carve out some alone time
“We send our four kids downstairs to watch cartoons on Saturday mornings and then we have a quickie to start off the day.” Catherine, Saint John, N.B.

5. Don’t forget the lube
“Forget diamonds, lube is a girl's best friend when it comes to giving hand jobs or oral sex. Make a big show of pulling it out and squeezing a dollop into your palm—and watch his eyes pop out of his head when he realizes what’s next.” Jill, Toronto

6. Make laundry day more fun
“Sit on top of the washing machine during the rinse cycle with your partner standing up, facing you. Good vibrations, baby!” Vicky, Thunder Bay, Ont.

7. Play games with each other
“We like to turn regular board games into sex games; each point represents something sexual, like a kiss.” Katrina, Edmonton

8. Connect again
“About once a week, after we put our daughter to bed, we crawl into our bed together with the newspapers. We read and have an adult conversation that’s unrelated to bills and chores. Inevitably, we start flirting and having sex.” Diane, Oakville, Ont.

9. Rent a sexy movie
“We subscribe to a movie rental delivery service called We like a series of adult films called, “For Couples Only”. We have a DVD player in the bedroom and we’ve never made it through a whole movie from start to finish…” Sarah, Kingston, Ont.

10. Take charge
“Confidence is a turn-on. If you’re comfortable with your body, you’re more able to relax and have fun. And when you’re more assertive, there’s less performance anxiety for him.” Keisha, Whitehorse, Yukon


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  1.' Charita says:


  2. You can’t calm the storm, so stop trying. What you can do is calm yourself. The storm will pass.

  3. Alejo Marco Alejo Marco says:

    i do that its great exercise XD

  4.' Arekai Loyen says:

    Healthy mood :hearty ;love concern,caring ,closiness ,attenting ;sex is about you ,your partner.

  5.' JamesFruit says:

    It makes a sense to use different pills supplements This stuff always helps me when I have problems with my sex life.

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