Mystery Solved: 25 Things a Woman Really Wants from Her Man

Posted by on July 5, 2015 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 0 Comments

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By Vivian Kelly | So Feminine

Men claim women are much more complicated than them, but what about our side of the story? It’s actually really simple to make a woman happy – if they’d only look out for the signs! Here are 25 things women wish men knew… Guys – we hope you’re taking notes!

​Boyfriends make the best of friends and amazing lovers, but it goes without saying that sometimes (okay, a LOT of the time) we think men could do more.


Familiar phrases spring to mind; ‘He never makes enough effort’, ‘he’s always with his friends’ and ‘he never notices me,’ but as they say, boys will be boys. So we decided to take a different approach in getting him to understand by creating the ultimate women’s wish list (that we hope will make things easier for man and womankind).

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And while this is no lesson on how to treat a lady it’s a pretty accurate guide into what us girls are really thinking. Boys, once you’ve read this, you will have THE KNOWLEDGE. Use it wisely.

1. Small things count.

Couple-With-FlowersSome guys think all they have to do is surprise us once and they’re set for life, but trust us, we’re keeping note. Why not pick-up our favourite feel-good treat while you’re on your way home this evening (clue, it’s either wine, chocolate or cheese) or buy us that new book we’ve been talking about non-stop. Trust us, our appreciation will show.


2. The E-word.

Effort (a word no man is unfamiliar with) is always the hitch. Take out the rubbish, call us to see how our day was or do something really special for our anniversary. We’re worth your time.

3. Confidence is hot, arrogance is NOT.

Every girl loves a man who’s comfortable in his own skin. It makes us feel safe and protected and nothing feels sexier than that. But arrogance? We. Can’t. Stand. It.

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4. Chivalry is not dead.

Be old fashioned from time to time – we freaking love it. Pay on the first date, hold the door for us and walk us to the front door. Promise, we won’t call you a stage-five clinger.

5. Don’t be a man-baby.

We’re nurturing, yes. Women love taking care of their men and helping them out, but as soon as we feel like we’re in mummy mode we want out. Most guys are kids at heart, but if we’re doing more than a bit of coddling (i.e. cutting your food into little pieces) then there’s definitely a BIG problem.

6. Listen and take interest.

After a hectic day all we want our man to do is listen. Women like to talk and pour their feelings out – it’s a well known fact. We confide in you, because we trust you to make us feel better. So please just mute the TV, put down your beer and listen dammit!

7. Be honest.

It’s true when they say honesty is the best policy. Telling a fib might seem like a great idea now, but women always find out and when we do it ain’t pretty. Most importantly, don’t cheat and lie about it. That’s just cowardly.

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8. Make us a priority.

Couple in LoveWomen need to feel like they’re more important than an Xbox. Of course men need to spend time with their friends and have some down time, but 3rd place isn’t cool. If your girl doesn’t feel like she’s a priority then you’re doing something very wrong buddy.

9. Notice the small things.

Everyone wants to be noticed by their partner. New hairstyle? New clothes? New dress size? New bra? Say something to acknowledge our effort, besides we (partially) did it for you!

10. Take it slow (in bed).

It can’t get any worse than a man finishing before we’ve even started. Women take longer to reach orgasm and foreplay is key – take your time and don’t rush. Thank you.

11. Turning down sex is NOT a big deal.

More often than not, if we turn down sex, it probably has nothing to do with you. We all have our down days – exhaustion, stress, worry? They’re all major mood killers. It happens – don’t take it personally.

couple in love paints12. Help us.

There’s nothing more irritating than a lazy man. Try helping us out with household chores, the school run and daily errands. It’s just as much your responsibility as it is ours.

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