The One Thing You Want To Focus On To Create Lasting Love in 2015

Editor’s Note: Liesel Rigsby was our guest on the Conscious Life Awakened Speaker Series (CLASS) and she WOWED us with tips on tapping into your true feminine essence. She shared the 3 mistakes women make when looking for love and what she says makes a “high caliber man.” Sign up here for the free series and access the replay.

create lasting love in 2015As we enter a New Year full of possibility and potential, I have an idea for you to replace resolutions.

Instead of focusing what you’re going to “fix” about yourself this year, why not focus instead on what you want to feel

How you feel affects everything in your life. So if you’re not happy with where your love life ended in 2014, choose for 2015 to be different.

Because when you’re feeling connected, joyful and in flow, you naturally attract situations and people to you that reflect that same connection, joy and flow.

When you’re feeling lit up and in tune with love. You attract the same.

But when you’re feeling contracted, fearful and shut down, you cut off the flow of energy and it’s very hard to attract positive outcomes and loving situations into your life.

Most people think they their circumstances need to change in order to be happy.

Once I meet my man then my life will be good…. If he could just change in x,y,z ways our relationship would work…. Once I get that promotion, I’ll feel fulfilled… 

But it doesn’t work that way. You’ve got to connect with your inner joy first and then you can attract and create the joyful, loving circumstances.


So here’s what to do.

Set aside some time in the next few days to meditate on all that you’re ready to release and leave behind in 2014. Write it all down. Every last bit. Purge. Let it go.

Then build a small (and safe!) fire and burn that list. As the smoke moves upwards imagine all of the old gently floating away.

Now you’re empty.

Get quiet and go inward.  Ask yourself how you want to FEEL in 2015.

Don’t limit yourself by what you believe is possible. Go big. Write it all down. The emotions, the qualities, the feelings that you would love to embody this coming year.


And if you’re ready to meet your partner in 2015, burn that list of the ‘perfect guy’ (he doesn’t exist – unless you happen to be perfect too 😉 and instead make a list of how you want to feel when you’re with your love.

Close your eyes and imagine being in the perfect relationship for you. How does your body feel? What emotions do you experience? How do you move through the world with this love supporting you? Feel it fully in your heart. Write it all down.

Now when you go on a date in 2015, pay attention to how you feel when you’re with him. Are you relaxed, happy, authentically you? Yes? Then go out with him again – even if you’re not initially attracted to him.

Give it a few dates to see if it the feelings grow. I’ve seen many women fall madly in love with men they originally thought they had no chemistry with. The attraction can grow  – if he makes you feel good that’s a great start.


OK so here’s my list of desired feelings for 2015:

:: relaxed
:: trusting
:: connected to Spirit
:: abundant
:: inspired
:: passionate
:: playful
:: creative
:: joyful
:: in love

Your turn.

Make the time for ritual and ceremony – to create the love and life you want in 2015.

Write down those desired feelings. Place your list in a prominent place where you can see it every day.

Then commit to doing the things that create and nurture those feelings within you. Spend time with the people who evoke those feelings. Base all of your decisions on the choice that brings you closer to how you want to feel in this year.

You can make 2015 the very best year yet – choose how you want to feel and take the steps to feel that way.

Simple as that.

Editor’s Note: Liesel Rigsby will be our Guest Speaker on the Conscious Life Awakened Speaker Series (CLASS), Tuesday, January 21, 2015. You can sign up for the free series here. And you can grab her free video training here.

Liesel-Rigsby-255x300Liesel Rigsby is known as The Energetic Matchmaker for her ability to intuitively ‘see’ what women need to shift in order to build a life of deeply fulfilling and lasting love. She is the creator of the internationally renowned Soulmate School, a six-week course designed to help women fall in love with themselves and clear their energetic blocks to divine partnership. She has helped women all over the world create loving, connected relationships. Get her free Video Series “Clear Your Energetic Blocks To Love” HERE Now.

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