Relationships & Sex
To love, trust and honor yourself is the ultimate foundation for any relationship. Real freedom is not necessarily doing whatever you want, whenever you want, with whomever you want. This is simply to be a slave to your desires. Remember that desires are fleeting and often endless. Real freedom is to be connected to your authentic self and making choices that are in alignment. Real freedom is a discipline of the heart. Real freedom is to sacrifice what is lesser for what is more. Real freedom is a commitment to love.
How does meditation change “getting lucky” into a spiritual, transformative, multi-dimensional experience? The journey from our “monkey minds” and chaotic lives to blissful meditative mindfulness is very similar to our journey from “just normal procreative/recreational sex” to phenomenal spiritual intimacy.
According to a study by the University of Virginia’s National Marriage Project, couples who reported a high amount of generosity in their relationship were five times more likely to say their marriage was “very happy.” I mean, who doesn’t want that?
Every single one of your relationships have been a success, even if they didn’t last forever. They have served to bring you a step closer to your true self. The partners you attract to you in the form of the man or woman, are a physical manifestation of who and where you are at in your own consciousness at this moment in time.
Dating has brought great men in my life that gave me a piece of profound healing and faith in what lies ahead, melting off my limiting beliefs.
A City in Flames I felt helpless sitting behind my laptop, out in the Karoo countryside, watching my beloved Mother City burn. Cape Town has been on fire for the past 5 days and the trail of devastation this raging inferno has wreaked is insurmountable. Thank goodness for the rain that came early on Wednesday morning […]
It’s amazing how these viral memes come and go… even when they’re fake! I was just reminded of this one… The Dalai Lama’s Instructions for Life! Yup these instructions “from the Dalai Lama” are floating around the Internet again. This time they came complete with the command to forward them to all of my friends […]
Empathy allows us to make a psychic and emotional connection with another person, to actually enter into their mind-space. The separateness between you and the other person fades away. Your ‘self-boundary’ melts away, so that in a sense – or to an extent – you become them.
Before you can create a soul community you must know who you really are and be living a life in alignment with your truth. These tips will help you smooth out this transition.
In our culture today the real value of the feminine has been far undervalued and under-appreciated. We tend to value things that we can touch, see, or understand with our logical mind. But the real essence of who you are as woman is beyond form, dancing in the unseen, intangible realms. The magic of the feminine is your mystery. As a woman, one of your gifts is your profound intuition. You sense, see, and feel things beyond the physical.
I saw a funny thing today on Facebook which said, “Men: If you ever wanna know what a woman’s mind feels like, imagine a browser with 2,857 tabs open. All. The. Time.” And while that crazy tendency to think, imagine, create, obsess, worry over a thousand things all at the same time can be true at many times of any given day in my own life, women are, I believe, actually quite simple to please at heart.