5 Tips for Sending Sexy Messages to Your Man (that Lead to Better Sex)

Posted by on May 14, 2017 in Conscious Living, Relationships & Sex with 8 Comments
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woman sending sexy text message sextingBy Cabot O’Callaghan | GoodMenProject.com

Cut the shallow Cosmo crap. Want to make your man burn? Be real.

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Authenticity is where hotness thrives. It’s where shallowness and masks and selfish intentions are piled high and burned to ash. It’s a precious thing. The most, if you ask me.

The busy monotony and practicalities of our lives can get in the way of burning with that special someone. It’s a shame. There’s work and kids and laundry and pets and bills and eating and friends and flossing and sleep and exercise and school and splitting atoms and and and….

Before you know it: WHERE’S THE HOTNESS? DEAR ANGSTY TEEN JEBUS WHERE HAS THE SEXY HOTNESS GONE?

Busy be damned. Distance be conquered. You can still light fires. Technology has handed the perfect fuel to stoke flames, baby.

Draw your phone and wield it. You have the power to light his loins ablaze from anywhere on the planet. Do it.

You won’t regret it. Or maybe you will. Surely in a good way. Surely.

Here’s the best part: There’s no perfect phrases, no definitive list. WE ARE BETTER THAN RULES, PEOPLE.

Men come in a cornucopia of flavors, even though mother culture whispers to us otherwise. Every man is a hairy snowflake. So for the love of Coffee and Bacon and Louis C.K., don’t put Baby in the corner. Nobody puts Baby in the corner.

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Above all, be genuine: Don’t just say, “I’m so horny” if you aren’t. Don’t say, “I’m thinking about you touching me” if you’re not. Think it, picture it, feel it…really feel it until your mind is a licking flame of arousal. Otherwise it’s like faking an orgasm. You are not just passing words to your man, you are passing energy to him … and that’s some powerful shit.

Be aggressively explicit: Tell him exactly what you are going to do to him the next time you two are together. Don’t ask. TELL. The more details, the better. You’ll be hot and bothered and he’ll be putty in your hands. Well, at least initially.

Send that dude a hot picture: Yeah, it’s scary. Maybe you are uncomfortable with a hawt photo of you released into the wild. There’s a solution, one that may even be hotter. Send him an artsy erotic photo from the Internets. You know, the black and white ones. Pick one you know he will like. Better yet, pick the one with a position you like. Add a comment like, “THIS. Tonight.”

He’ll eat it up. He’ll flirt back. Then when you are finally in the flesh together, clothes will explode off. Enjoy.

The day-long flirt: Just like in the movie Field of Dreams, “If you build it, they will come.” It might take some practice, but the slow building of flirts throughout the day will show him that he is always on your mind no matter what you are doing. He’ll eat it up. He’ll flirt back. Then when you are finally in the flesh together, clothes will explode off. Enjoy.

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  1. 397114270481156@facebook.com' Gary Clement says:

    Please stop posting this crap.

  2. 853569408064150@facebook.com' Jay McFly says:

    If you need to read this for advice you’re already lost Lol

  3. 10153591530353670@facebook.com' Ervin Galassi says:

    Whisper in my ear please not a text

  4. 10207893404358577@facebook.com' Brady Hamilton says:

    Felecity Dulguime

  5. 10154163371222678@facebook.com' Syreeta Hill says:

    ???

  6. 10205911619047185@facebook.com' Roxane Vasilia Christopoulos says:

    Excuse me, but aren’t you encouraging pre-marital sex here? This is not a positive form of Conscious Life.

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